My son got invited to a birthday party, he want us to cancel our vacation so he can go to this party. We haven't taken a vacation yet this summer.
2006-07-06 17:48:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Send a gift and go on vacation. You're the parent and have the final say so not your son.
2006-07-06 17:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-14 05:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, he can send his freind a card, and give a gift later. he is too old for the "but i want to go to the party" idea. that is for 3-4 graders. take him with you. and go have a good time. if he doesent have a good time on the vacation then its his loss. i am 16 and the only reason i am not going on the next family vaction (in 3 weeks) is that i have to work, so that i will have time off for the church camp i want to goto a week after that. i cant take 2 weeks off, and i sat down with my parents many times and talked it over with them, and they let e stay home because its more than just a "i want to do this" the camp i am going to i have been to 3 times before and i learn a lot there. it did not come with out sacrifice on my part though. i have to pay for it my self. wich is fine by me, because its worth every penny.
2006-07-06 18:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a VERY VERY important friend, someone the parents know really well just as the boy does (or nearly) you should cancel the vacation to the next day or anytime you have free time.
2006-07-06 17:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by kmdiana7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy's wish must be respected. He can go to the party & you can go on vacation without him. or you can cancel the vacation & be home so that your son goes to the party. Ask your son what he wants. Or drag him along with you to the vacation if he wants to be with you.
The choice is yours. The credit must go to me.
2006-07-14 11:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is . . . is he a responsible, trusting child?
If so, then, remember he's growing up and perhaps should have the choice.
Just make sure arrangements have been made for him, as far as where he will stay, emergency contact numbers, money for food, etc.
If he's not a trusting individual, then I guess I'd make him go, as much as he'll resent it (and you, his parents). This be the case, explain to him WHY he's not allowed to be home and give him the opportunity to prove himself otherwise, after you return from the trip.
Good luck, have fun!
2006-07-06 17:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the problems with America today, mushy parents. The first rule of parenting, the parents make the rules.
2006-07-06 17:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the kid.If he's a responsible kid,then it's OK to leave him.If he gets in trouble,etc-make him go with you.My parents went away once and took my brothers-who are only a year younger than me.I stayed home with my older brother and sister.We were responsible,they were not.
2006-07-06 18:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by bannelee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I am 15... Same circumstances... give him the choice... for you to go without him or he goes to the birthday party... honestly... if you don't wan tot do that... it would probably be better if he went with you guys.
2006-07-06 17:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Tho Deep ught 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's the parent?
2006-07-06 17:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by ☼Jims Brain☼ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋