2006-07-06 17:45:22 · 20 answers · asked by bcky69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love sucks.
2006-07-06 17:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its very simple. U work in daytime and sleep at night , u have light for 12 hrs and night for 12 hrs. U like to have fun at school and but u are always scared of exams. If u wanna have some good food at some good place and u juz have little money for it U will still have it and and will really like the food, But if u have plenty of money then u may not have the same eagerness to have that food .So in Life everything is balanced happiness and sorrow both are 50-50, so whenever u fall in love with someone then give some space to moments which are not all that happy, its an art, to get beeter of the life.
2006-07-06 17:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by gudsaurav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love feels so good but hurts so bad, too because it's the rollercoaster of your heart and life. That rollercoaster goes UP and it comes DOWN. Joy and pain, sunshine and rain and all that. It's part of life and always will be. But, as you've learned or are learning, when it's great, there's NOTHING BETTER and when it's not there are few things worse.
As you mature (emotionally, anyway) things even out. The hills and valleys become bumps in the road.
2006-07-06 17:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts because u give ur heart and urself in hopes that the one person u give it to knows how to take care of it. When he/she does, then love is an array of emotions all combined into one that make u feel like there is no one else for u. Love is great.... regardless.
2006-07-06 17:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by lost_realist_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people have an inclination to make investments too a lot emotion into some thing it truly is inappropriate and under no circumstances meant to very last, and then at the same time as the courting or connection contains an end. The Brian tells the body to launch particular chemical compounds that make us damage emotionally.
2016-11-06 00:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that i really dont know the answer...
but i been hurt so many times,but i feel so good if i feel love to somebody...
my opinion is when ever u get hurt be ready for ur tomorrow and stand up for urself.then learn from the mistake u make...and be happy and get for another try...
2006-07-06 17:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love feels so good ...that is the reason why it hurts badly
anything good always has a bad side to it too.....we should all learn to move on no matter what......and remember love for all the joy it has given you ..the happiness that compensates for all sorrows which love itself gives.
2006-07-06 17:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked the same question once before and this is what I received as a response. It really helped me realized what love really is and how we can't control its course. And that, we have to accept whatever may come out of it, good or bad. So here it is...
If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return, do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time .
Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life......
2006-07-06 17:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Accidentally in Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts cause you realize that you did some really dumb and stupid things for someone you were not too sure was worth it.
2006-07-06 18:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by R+ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love bleeds!Check out The Passion of Christ.
2006-07-06 17:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋