i dont know if i should stay with my g/f of 6 months. she cheated on me but only made out. i still love her and i believe her when she says she loves me back and would never do it again. is it a smart choice to take her back
2006-07-06 17:41:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, you should give everyone one more chance. She knows she messed up a good thing. Let it go and move on. However, if it happens again then it's time to go. Goodluck. :)
2006-07-06 17:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when u r in a relationship, u r on your only chance. once some one cheats, they have used up that only chance. Things are not the same once someone cheats. My bf of 11 years( just recently split) was with other people early on & as much as I tried to make it work, I could not regain that spark I had for him or help but wonder if he was cheating
2006-07-07 01:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by twogris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should give her anoyher chance cuz yall been together for 6 months and you wouldn't want to waste that and yall are in love wit each other if u do break up with her going to realize that you made a bug mistake don't miss a good thang till its gone
2006-07-07 00:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, are you going to hold this over her and make both your lives miserable? Has she done this to previous boyfriends? There is a lot to take into account. If she's a nice person and made a drunk mistake and it involved just making out, everyone screws up and I think you should just move on with her if you can truly trust her. If not, dump her and move on alone
2006-07-07 00:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by chrissheather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would tell you to stay with her but then again who am i to talk i cheat on like every guy i go out with basically...yea im a slut whatcha gonna do bout it...but i still think you should give her another chance...i mean does she have a reason why she did it?!?!?! just try talking about it it always helps to talk...unless of course one of you guys has anger problems and would like throw a chair...but hey what do i know being im just bipolor and all?!?!?!
but whatever good luck...and if you do take her back...and she really does love you then she probly wont do it again...
2006-07-07 00:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by danielle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend not until you says.” I do” in marriage do you have a real choice to make. That is when you are committed. I say forgive her and move on…. Give your self time. Let the healing begin but give it room. Love will not die.
2006-07-07 01:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Agree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I am with Amber on this one. NONONONONONO! Once a cheater always a cheater! If she loved you so much in the 1st place she wouldn't of made out with that other person. Nonono.
2006-07-07 00:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she did it once, she'll do it again. at least time she didn;t go all the way and pick up a disease for you.
be careful, do you really know that she didn't go all the way?
and there are so many other hotties out there.
get another one who is cuter and nicer and who will truly love you.
2006-07-07 00:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the situation if u really care about each other and if u trust her not to do it again then stay with her.if u doubt her then don't stay with her. if u decide to stay with her don't let the relationship get to serious
2006-07-07 00:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good way to start out. Probably worth moving on.
2006-07-07 00:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by oldmoose2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋