Well my boyfriend broke up with me after 3 yrs together. I am kinda lost as to why. He said that he could not get over the past and how I was mean to him. I do admit that I did not want him to hang out with certain people (like a girl that he made out with in the past or some girl that was his best friend that he never introduced me to). We have broken up in the past and the last time he came back to me and wanted to get back together but this was after he slept with some girl that he was talking to. I took him back and we were good for a couple of months. Now he wants to break-up again. What can I do to get him back? Should I keep trying to call him or should I just let him go? I know there is no other girl. Just 2 weeks ago he said that he could see spending the rest of his life with me. We do live like 70miles apart and we see each other maybe once a week. I don't know if that makes things worse. Thanks for any advice.
2006-07-06 17:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to add that we are both 25 yrs old so this is not some little kiddy thing.
2006-07-06 17:14:39 · update #1
just let him do his thing. if you act like you dont care...then it will bother him more. move on in your life start up something new. a hobby or something, sounds to me like he is confused. i was the same way with my boyfriend and we broke up and he went back to his ex...so i started college and acted like i didnt care, and he came back and now we are living together and could possibly be having a baby...so...just give it time and dont care anymore
2006-07-06 17:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by iheartskcs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 3 years, i can imagine how hard it would be to let go, but i think that you should. if he has cheated on you and not introduced you to some of his friends then i dont think he's worth your time! my boyfriend and i live 550 miles apart for 3/4 of the year and i only see him once every three months! but that doesnt stop me from loving him, so distance isnt a factor. but i honestly think that you can probably do better and that he isnt worth your time if he's just gonna cheat on you and lie to you
P.S. i can understand why you wouldnt want him to hang out with a girl he made out with before... i would feel the exact same way
2006-07-07 00:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go, Your past will always be there and if cant accept it then you need to find someone who cares about who you are now not what is in your past. It is completely understandable why you might feel uneasy with him talking to certain girls, it not mean, especially if he will sleep with them while you apart. It sounds like he has feelings for her. My ex wife promised me there was no other guy, 9 months later she admitted she was sleeping with who I thought was a good friend of mine while we were together. Move on, I'm sure there is a lot of guys that would treat you with more respect. good luck.
2006-07-07 00:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the dirt bag go. There is a reason people break up with each other, and the reason don't go away just because time passes. Sometime two people just arent compatible. good luck.
2006-07-07 00:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all I read was 70 and once a week. so I say. No more seeing him.
2006-07-07 00:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by snipps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that Either of you are ready!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-07 00:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋