Why am I obsessed with her? She is my teacher and I have no chance she is getting married!?

Question

I am 12 she is 28

Answer 1

Find a girl your own age.

Answer 2

You are obsessed with her because you are infatuated. Infatuation is an object of extravagant, short-lived passion. It shouldn't last long, and once it's over, you'll be wondering why you were so attracted in the first place. I guarantee you'll feel this more than once for different girls. This is something most people mistake for love, and then it usually ends up in tears. I suggest that you do your best to ignore it.

Answer 3

Well you do really admire her in a way that you see in her so much quality of what you picture in your mind of a partner... you might be falling in love earlier than expected or might be consider as puppy love.. wait till you norture and find your way to adulthood or wait for another couple of years than your feeling for her may change.. if it's really love i see a big chance of you marrying her when you reach 20 then she will be 36... if you could provide for her and most importantly if you both feel the same way with each other.

Answer 4

Because of all of the news articles about the latest trend of teachers having sex with their male students. You are living in a fantasy world. THink about it, when you turn 80, she'll be 96. WHat type of life can you two have together. Let her go.

Answer 5

Cuz you are a horney little boy with raging hormones, if I were twelve again nowing what I know now, I would accidentially cop a feel and play it off like an accident real smoothe like. This is terrible advice but really what can you get in trouble for?

Answer 6

well, first off....its normal, cause she looks nothing like the girls your age look like. and you have to remember your hormones are starting to kick start so you'll have these feeling. As far as it ever happining, I don't think she'd be willing to risk her career, and relationship on something with a 12 year old. Its a crush, you'll get over it, its also the "older woman" thing, EVERY guy has had it at one point of their lives or another.....just try to hook up with girls your own age, and things will work out.....good luck.

Answer 7

This is more pyscological then anything. Most males are inflatuated by women with athority, men that has a mother that is not much of athority will yearn for that type of affection. This is true in my case. Men with on over athority mother will most likely resent a woman in athority. It doesnt always apply in ever situation. Your feeling are pretty much normal

Answer 8

Ok let it go kid! That's gross that you like your teacher. Well not if you aren't doing anything about it, but I saw this program on tv that had this lady who was sleeping with her 6th grade student. They had 2 kids from it and she went to jail for like a total of 9 years. They are married now. It's just really weird to me.

Answer 9

You just need to get over it. I would guess you are most likely more turned on by the fact that subconciously you know you cannot have her. Alot of people obsess over what they cannot obtain. The thrill of the chase.

Answer 10

ohh kid, calm down. watching too many movies. you're just feeling the effects of hormones, but ignore it because think about it, do you think a 28 year old woman dating a 12 year old kid would work? in fact, its illegal in the US to do much with a minor.

Answer 11

probably obsessed cuss shes got more then what the girls your age got. Get over it, trust me there are a ton of girls out there soon enough your gonna find yourself not being able to choose between them