I am absolutly head over heald for my drop dead gorgeous drum teacher. He is 3 years older than me, and I want to know if there is anything there. He is going back to college in the fall so he will no longer be my teacher. But until then, he continues to make my week by being awesome during my 30 minute drum sessions. Do you think I should say something? Or would it be completely awkward of me to do that?
2006-07-06 16:53:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him if he wants to get a cup of coffee, if he makes an excuse you know he is not interested, however, he may say he will take you up on it at another time, in which case maybe he is waiting until he is not your teacher.
2006-07-06 16:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by serenitynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have a girlfriend there's no reason why you can't ask. How will you ever know anything unless you ask. if beating around the bush isn't working then just be direct. Say, "Look, I'd like to spend more than minutes with you before you go away to college." He might be cool with the idea
2006-07-06 17:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could say something like you will miss him teaching you and that maybe you two could keep in touch after your session is over.
Do you feel like he is interested in you at all? If there are flirtatious moments between the two of you then go for it. Don't be scared.
2006-07-06 16:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by MomofAEI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what i think you should do se if he has a girlfriend first?than tell him before its to late because he can find someone else that will be a los but then if hes going to college that could be a proble cause its college and you no that someone can find him or he will find someone but i would cause if you dont then you will always wonder if he liked me or not if you think he dos like you then tell him i no cause that happend to me and he has a kid
2006-07-06 17:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go a head take the chance you will be glad you did, its only awkward because base on your socialization the guy should ask. But be the modern mature woman. ASK!
2006-07-06 16:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Leunamme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, say something...you have nothing to lose. And don't over worry about being awkward...even if your are it does not matter as you will be cute as you do it. A woman being all cutey awkward can melt a guys heart.
2006-07-06 16:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would probably make it weird between the two of you, just because he is your teacher at the moment.....but there is always risk in anything you do, so if you think that it would be worth it to find out, then go for it. just be prepared in case he's not interested, or something like that.
2006-07-06 16:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Iowa_Bound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him about himself first. He might have a girlfriend? Just ask him about himself, things he likes, etc. Then ask if he has a girlfriend. If he says no, just play it off like you were just curious. If he says yes, don't get upset, just play it off by asking about her. But I hope he says no. The next time you see him after he says he doesn't have a gf,if he says he doesn't, then I think it would be okay for you to say what you wanted to say.
2006-07-06 17:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait until he goes back to school...that way you are on "equal ground"....then you can approach him...and say something like..."would you be interested in lunch " and just see what he says...Hey, no offense but maybe he already has a girlfriend...not to be negative....but sometimes that happens..
2006-07-06 16:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell hem how you fell about hem and make it come from the heart.
2006-07-06 16:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋