Ok me and this guy have known each other for like a little over a month. We have been talking almost everyday for about a week and a half and he says he likes me and he knows i like him but he says we just need to get to know each other a little bit more. This guy makes me really nervous to talk to I never kno wat to say to him and i really want him to kno the real me. Hes been calling me a lot and wanting to talk so do u think he will ask me out i mean why would he be bothering to talk to me if he wasnt planning on asking me out in the future? And Please Could he give me some ides on what to talk about between a 14 year old girl and a 15 years old guy? Thank you sooo much I would really appreciate the help!
2006-07-06 16:45:54 · 25 answers · asked by Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i bet he will ask you out i mean guys can be real confusing but by the way i t sounds hes really into you give him time and get to know him youll be glad you did and as for what to talk about with him the better you get to know him the more youll know what he likes to talk about dont worry it will get easier!
2006-07-06 16:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by kc123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The trick to being at ease in talking to a guy is to relax and take it day by day-you're probably worrying too much about whether or not he'll ask you out and your anxiety is causing emotional stress. Since you've been talking to him almost every day for ver a week you must have some idea what his interests are-most guys like sports,cars,music,movies -but what do you like to talk about-what are your interests or just talk about your day what you di,what he did and so on. I should note though that if he's 15 and just talking on the phone and tells you you two need to know wach other more before you go out then maybe he's not interested in dating for thats how people attracted to each other get to know each other. Were I you I'd forget about the dating and if I got that nervous talking to someone on the phone it wouldn't be worth the anxiety esp were I 14-you don't need it for at 14 your life should be anxiety free. I bet once you realize the guy isn't that into dating but maybe he just likes talking to you on the phone as a fried but not date then you probably won't be as nervous. He may also be playing youfor like I said seems strange he's not asked you out.
2006-07-06 17:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, right now he might to shy or don't a way of saying that he like you. If he has in mind that you are so beautifu, he freaks out. but u have to play a little game with him, ask him question like Do you like to hang out? or going to movies? talk to him, don't just let him do all the talk, sometimes, he might just want you to ask him question him question about his life. Well, a 15years old, might not know a lot to say to a girl, but if you know better open up his mid to see where he really he is. Don't be too shy when you asking question about his pass life. If he's the that tell you he want to know a little bit, just be an open book to him, make him free to ask you any question he feels like. Believe, when I was around 14 to 15yrs old, that happen to me.
2006-07-06 16:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Coach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he will ask you out.
ideas of what to talk about:
music- types, favorite songs/bands/singers
books-favorites and why and stuff like that
tv- shows
your day- anything that happened that is worth talking about
childhood maybe-sure its odd but im sure you can come up with something
work- if you or he have a job
parents/family- talk about how you like/dislike your family and why
sports- if both of you are into sports talk about that
news- somtimes thats all there is to talk about
boredom- somtimes me and my boyfriend talk about how bored we are without each other lol
you could also ask him to hang out sometime do things you think he would like to do like if he likes nature go for a hike or somthing
2006-07-06 16:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by wutsupdog345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my the hormones at that age lol....as a parent of a teen and two older kiddos i see youre having the typical tough time wondering what the heck the guy is doing! I think what he's doing is waiting for a CLEAR signal from you, provided what another poster said about him having a g/f already...just come right out and say how you feel and if he wants to take you out. Guys lotta times have to have a brick to the head to see the signs. Youre gonna see a lot of guys between now and high school, so play it cool and use your head....good luck!
2006-07-06 16:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jim R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about music or movies. What kind you like and what kind he likes. Talk about what you like to do for fun. Talk about what career path you plan to take in your adult life, by 14 or 15 you must have some idea as to what you want to do with your life. And be glad that he wants to get to know you and not try to take advantage of you the first chance he gets. Sounds like he MIGHT be a nice guy.
2006-07-06 16:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by madroofer36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is a bit of a long time....but he could just be shy or scared. It's possible, your both quite young...chances are he has not asked out all that many girls. He could be trying to get to know you a bit first.
He could just want to be freinds, that's possible.
You could always make a bit of a first move to bait him in. Something like talk about how you'd realy like to see movie X and try to get him to offer to take you.
2006-07-06 16:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 15 I was really awkward about actually asking a girl out that I liked. I really appreciated it when a girl asked me out instead. Maybe this is what your up against. He probably is very interested in you but is a little too shy yet to ask you out. It's not wrong to make the first move. maybe that will be what breaks the ice.
2006-07-06 16:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I most def think that he will be asking you out in the near future. but I also feel that you should chill and relax and quit being so nervous.!! Just be you !! And everything else will fall into place. As for things to talk about find out his background,where's he from,how many siblings (if any). Ask him what attracts him to you? his favorite things to do? Just simple questions like that. whatever it is that you want to know, you should be able to ask freely!
2006-07-06 16:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by BoSs_LaDii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he is a little bit afraid to ask you. It seems like he wants to when he calls but he is afraid to be rejected. He may only think you like him but may not be sure. If I was you I would let him know that you like him by like telling him that he looks nice, Making eye contact, or when you catch him looking at you kinda look away smiling. If anything try asking him out if you know he likes you. sometimes guys are to scared and hope that the other person will ask them out instead.
2006-07-06 16:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by naridelius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋