I'm a chivalrous guy, open doors for everyone. Fairly gregarious. When I do go on a date, the majority of the time the girls are interested. I'm not aplayer..I don't sleep around with them. Instead, I wint heir affection, but get bored and end up splitting it off BEFORE anything sexual takes place. (see I'm not a creep). I'm getitng frustrated though because I can't seem to find a girl whom I can see myself with longterm..and by golly I've tried. What to do?
2006-07-06 16:37:07 · 9 answers · asked by markwett 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, you sound like the same boat that I was in at one time. I kinda gave up after a while. Then, as soon as I stopped worrying about it, I met the lady that became my wife. I just started to find other things to do in my time. I enjoyed single life without being depressed because I constantly keep myself busy, then, all of the sudden here she comes. I've been married for four years now, and am glad I didn't take the first girl that came along(or the second, or third, or fourth, well, you get the point.) Don't worry, it'll be cool!
2006-07-06 16:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe you just aren't meeting the right people. Here's a suggestion: Sit down with a pen and paper and figure out what it is you want in a relationship and what you are willing to contribute. Once you get a little insight, you may make better choices when in comes to the opposite sex. You may also try online dating. They can be a little pricey, but some of them are actually pretty good at matching you with someone who has similar interests. Anyway, I hope this was helpful and keep trying.
2006-07-06 16:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by koko kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always an exciting game to try to win the girl's affection. By doing so, it gives you the ultimate satisfaction and indirectly boost your ego and confidence.
You lose interest in everyone you date as there is no more anticipation left in the girl for you.
I have the same problem as you too :)
So please think twice before you consider settling down and start a family coz it is going to be a life time commitment to yourself and to the girl.
2006-07-06 17:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by PaperCloUDs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you havent found the right girl. before my boyfriend now i dated a lot of different types of guys and ALWAYS got sick of them they could never keep me interested after like 2 months. alot of them were great but just werent for me. my boyfriend now on the other hand weve been together over three years now and i love him more and more every day. so you just need to keep doin what youre doin and when the rite chick comes along youll know.
2006-07-06 16:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by sarisle77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep trying. You just haven't found the right one yet to keep your attention. Is their a possiblity that you are afraid of getting to close to someone? Let your guard down a little and see what happens.
2006-07-06 16:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you havent found the right gal to rock your world yet dude. Eventually you will find one that you fall head over heals for and you will regret it. LMAO!
2006-07-06 16:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by madroofer36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lives w you - enable her be. each and every thing is nice, yet you already know, from time to time, residing w one yet another proves puzzling - even if u care. Play cool. :) She does like you. attempt now to not b a carry-on, or annoy her w lack of self belief.
2016-10-14 05:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by hanrahan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have to say ur looking at all the wrong girls and if ur dating them for over a year u have to work to keep the realationship allive
2006-07-06 16:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young, obviosly afraid of committment..keep dating! enjoy life!
2006-07-06 16:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋