we have been together for a yaer and 2 m i know he is cheating on me. we dont live together we both have a son from other people i love him with all my heart he is my everything i dont want to let him go but i dont want to cry any more i am so heart we have been through so much through so much together i dont know how he could do that to me when i am always by his side no matter what
i dotn want to loes him but its killing me in side know he is with some one other then me
2006-07-06 16:35:40 · 37 answers · asked by lasha s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, what's your question?
2006-07-06 16:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lasha, i am sorry to have to tell you this,but the best thing for you to do at this moment is to let your ex-boyfriend breathe.the reason why i am telling you this is because if you are still hurt then you will most likely resort to doing things such as calling him,stalking him,stalking the other woman,have an obession about his new girl all because you are curious to see what it is about the other girl that made him leave you. take my advice and follow these tips it may help you in a long run that is if you decide to use them: first of all alcohol will not help you get over the hurt that you are feeling,stay out of sight and if you can help it ,not think about him as much and if you do just think about how he doesn,t deserve a woman like you,take on a interest of hobbie or something that you have never gotten the chance to complete as suppose to trying to put your energy in trying to get someone back that doesn,t want you,and last but not least try to seperate yourself from the people that you and your ex-were mutual friends with. try establishing a group of friends that can kind of take your mind off of the one man that hurt you so much......good luck!
2006-07-06 17:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Trust me... I've been down that road! The saying is true, "once a cheater, always a cheater!" You may not believe me now but, it's the best thing that ever happened to me. I was devistated at first (each time it happened). Then, we broke-up and didn't know what to do.
I met my now husband and couldn't imagine dragging on in that life that I was in. I know how bad it sucks at the time. But, I'd go through it all again to end-up where I am today. I think if I changed one little thing my life wouldn't be as good as today. So, move on to bigger and better things. Pick your head up and know that someone better is just waiting for you and your son...
2006-07-06 16:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by kista_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you love him there goes that line "Once a cheater, always a cheater." You are better than that to forgive and forget something like that. You should either confront him in the act or just break it off. I know I wouldn't want ot go through the pain on being cheated on. So consider to just break it off because if he was unloyal once, think what he will do it twice...
2006-07-06 16:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by MrTokyoDrift 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that u r hurting so y not hurt now and get it over with and let him go a man will only do what u allow. If u r not happy then y stay think does the good out weigh the bad. We have all been there before u know it u will be over him its seems as if the pain won't stop but it will it will never stop if u stay. So just hurt now and smile later
2006-07-06 16:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by msdanni523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him go then but dont cry about it anymore or don't try and get even either because then that will hurt the both of you but ask him about it sit down and discuss it and if you are for sure that he is cheating on you then if he is dishonest about it then your going to have to let him go at the risk of you and your kids emotional well being and the risk of getting an STD.
2006-07-06 16:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Indian_Candy89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure he is cheating, then he isn't worth your time. The hardest part will be making the decision to end it. Only then, will you be able to begin the process of moving on. Even though you aren't married to him, I recommend finding a DivorceCare class nearest to you and becoming involved. You can find information on the internet about DivorceCare. It will give you the tools you need to recover emotionally and spritually in a healthy manner. good luck.
2006-07-06 16:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by babycakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any proof that he is indeed cheating on you? If you don't then I really won't worry about it, however I would do is sit him down and ask if he ever had a affair before or during our relationship. If he looks into your eyes and flats out says "no" then I kinda won't worry about as much (however keep your eyes and ears alert) but he pauses for a while and looks around then he is cheating on you(Dumpville City next exit).
2006-07-06 16:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by chocolateheaven84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and not that I have cheated on anyone, but I know that he won't stop. If he did that it means he doesn't respect you. Moving on is really hard, so grab your best friend and don't leave their side until your tears have dried up. There are people that still know how to treat women and that's who you deserve. Good luck.
2006-07-06 16:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. The heart knows no boundaries but your mind knows better. This time follow your mind because your heart will only break more if you stay.
2006-07-06 16:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by odescent2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him about it. If he is cheating on u he doesn't love u (personally i think its sad that a 13 year old has 2 tell u this) and he is not worth ur time :)
2006-07-06 16:39:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋