I've liked this guy for a while but i don't think he' knows that i like him how do i let him know with out giving to much away. i'm always jealous that people that just flirt naturally can you guys give me some pointers
2006-07-06 16:33:29 · 5 answers · asked by Molly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I think flirting comes naturally to everyone, you just have to look beyond the person you see in the mirror and dig deep inside yourself, I dont believe that you dont know how to flirt, your just shy which holds you back from attempting to flirt. But to me the best way to come out and say you like someone is to just do that. Most guys would respect a girl who is just straight and to the point!So if you like someone go for it. Dont beat around the bush,just let them know how you feel and the flirting will eventually follow! And dont let rejection play a toll in your withdrawal in not letting that person know how you feel. Because there's a chance he'll say no, but there's also a chance he'll say yes. And you'll never know if you let the thought of rejection get in the way!
2006-07-06 16:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by BoSs_LaDii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always considered myself a smart and receptive guy. And I can say for myself, that I'm as signal-blind as a rock. I don't get signals unless they're obvious. I think girls often give signals that they'd like to receive themselves and the same goes for guys as well.
Think like a guy and use it..not in a such a bad way (at first). Start with touching his hair when he's close to you (i.e. sitting on a couch) and forearms. Always feed him meat or any obvious man-food and make sure you stress how "hard" it was to get it. Be the exact opposite of his energy. If he's masculine, be feminine. Make him laugh... always. And laugh at his jokes, if he's horrible at jokes...poke fun but always in a positive note. And compliment his obvious shortcomings (if the guy's a little chubby - casually drop "I like men who look like they can protect me")
If the guy doesn't see all that, then he's not worth it. Never go for someone who you like more than he does. If you're bad at flirting, this is a too big of a challenge. When you start believing in yourself, you can make any man melt.
Trust me....I'm a guy!
2006-07-06 23:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mark M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm no guy but i am a girl who knows how to flirt and get guys to like her. i say use a cute voice and get them to do something you don't want them to do with you and be like stoooooooooop in a cute voice. Use your charm too I'm sure you have it in you! Also you could try flipping your hair a little bit but don't over do it! GOOD LUCK!! I know you have it in you! You have a flirting beast inside you just dying to awaken.
Also, maybe you have been flirting just haven't realized it, it took me a while to realize i was lol.
2006-07-06 23:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by wutsupdog345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try these on its own or combined in different intensities.
-glancing and eye contact
-looking like ur busy E.g. writing, reading or talking on phone or in rush
When u actually know and talk to the guy:
-pushing or nudging when somethin funny is said
-pretending like u don't like him
-pretending like u do like him
-being abit mean
-being nice
2006-07-06 23:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nattas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him eye contact..look at him..then turn away slowly with a smile...always try to let him see you smile..giggle around him too wear something cute..pass by him and smile...
2006-07-06 23:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by chat girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋