Is it okay to be "friends with benefits" with an ex?
2006-07-06 16:17:50 · 13 answers · asked by snugglebear200482 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course.
but you might want to think about getting back togather then!
lol it's better when you admit it...
so my advice to you,
decide if you really like this guy, and if you do, and if you remain "friends with benefits" then you'll probably get back togather again...
lol
have fun.
2006-07-06 16:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex and he kept having feelings for me and was hurt when I didn't return them...it will make things hard when one of you moves on and the other does not
2006-07-06 17:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by amanda a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the both of you know that the "benefits" are the only thing you're both looking for. If one of you wants to be more than friends, then the benefits are going to kill your friendship.
2006-07-06 16:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, some ppl find it ok, and some don't. You guys would be close, but there could be jelousy or something that might just drag u down. it really depends on the person. but mostly it's ok 2 b friends with benefits.
2006-07-06 16:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is fine until you start seeing someone else. then you must cut him/her off how would you feel if the new person had an ex with benefits
2006-07-06 16:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. My best friend has a friend with benefits and she is very happy. so if you don't regret not having a personal relationship with your friend with benefit then there is nothing wrong with it.
2006-07-06 16:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by ratel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? There is a reason he is your ex, why would you want to do anything to benefit him?
2006-07-06 16:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me there's really no point..Because the relationship isn't going anywhere. Why waste time putting forth so much energy into something that's at a standstill..Now if you were planning on getting back together, then that would be another story.
2006-07-06 16:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by BoSs_LaDii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that he is your ex and as soon as something better comes alon he will kick you to the curb again. I think that it just hurts yourself too much to do it. You have to break-up twice. It will hurt even more the second time.
2006-07-06 16:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by aussie_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it might start out as being "friends wit benifits" but it might turn into something more than that to one of you, and when that happens and the other does get involved with someone else they will get jealous because they thought that the 2 of you were more that just friends again.
2006-07-06 16:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by loonyboy55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋