2006-07-06 16:16:56 · 15 answers · asked by chey shy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't blame yourself it is not your fault. they have to solve the problem between themselves.
2006-07-06 16:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if it is problems that you think they might seperate. The only thing you can do is get them together and sit down and try to talk to them and tell them how their problem is affecting you. How you love both of them, and wish they could straighten out what ever problem they are having. The next best thing is praying for them. Pray and ask God to help them make wise desicions about their marriage and family. And to protect them from harm. To give them peace. And to put love in their hearts. Alot of times when two people are having problems, pride and hurts get in the way. Causing emotions to run high. And sometimes we say things we may later regret. God Bless, and good luck!
2006-07-06 16:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by mitzi o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents have a tendency to try to draw you over to their side. Explain to both of them that you do not want to be brought into it. Other than that, you really can't (or shouldn't) do anything except encourage them to work out their problems peacefully and reasonably.
2006-07-06 16:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by CAUTION:Truth may hurt! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't solve their problem for them, but you should tell them that it's upsetting you that they are having problems, and you'd like to talk it over with them so you can feel better about the whole thing.
2006-07-06 16:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Just Ducky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them hash it out between themselves. There is nothing that you can do to make their problems any better. You are a kid so try to focus on being just that. Dont blame yourself either.
2006-07-06 16:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by dumbass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are inorder to help you.
First do NOT take sides. Second continue to let them know you love them. Thirdly it is NOT your fault that they are having problems. Sadly many adults do not know how to behave, say I am sorry or take responsibility for their actions.
Lastly you can pray for them.
2006-07-06 16:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by fatboysdaddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to love each one and don't get in the middle of their problems, also do not pick sides.
2006-07-06 16:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by brenda b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell them that it is hurting you.
You can also talk to a school counselor or another adult that you trust.
Don't try to keep all your feelings inside though.
2006-07-06 16:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brenda b is absolutely right. Difficult for kids as they love both..Good luck n best wishes for you..
2006-07-06 16:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them do what they have to do...Talk and resolved their own problems....unless he is hiting on you mother don't get into their argumenst. good luck.
2006-07-06 16:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋