i asked my to go to church with me this weekend and she was like ...i dont know i have to back to u on that....now that only reason i asked was b/c my other friend said that she will not go to church and i wanna know why......i mean there is not wrong wit a lil church every now and again......is she scared?....why wont she go to church?
2006-07-06 16:15:42 · 30 answers · asked by dt l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she's lazy
2006-07-06 16:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 11⤋
Go ahead and just ask her if she is afraid to go or not. Tell her if she is that you can even have her meet with the pastor before church to see how well she'll like him or maybe even record one of the sermons and let her watch it later on to see how much fun everyone is having. If she's just worried about a few things, point out some stuff from the Bible and encourage her to go. Work on her slowly, don't force her to go. But the best thing you can do is set an example and start talking about how fun and exciting church is a little bit more often around her. Start even saying, hey at church we did this awesome song, or I heard this really powerful message, can I share it with you?
2006-07-06 16:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by daredevil_girl013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do think that there's something wrong with a lil church -- for them. If it's OK for you, that's fine, but you have to realize that not everyone has the same religious beliefs as you.
If that's a dealbreaker for you, do this woman a favor and tell her now.
2006-07-06 16:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pressure her
my mum won't go to my church because she was sexualy harrased by a minister
maybe she just doesn't like the idea
maybe you should make church sound really fun anf then say "you shold go some time"
say this on and off for a few weeks and then tell her it would really mean alot if she went with you, if she makes an excuse ask her why and tell her she can trust you
lol
2006-07-06 16:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by RandomChickSam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothign scary about church, but ppl who dont ahve strong religios beliefs dotn feel comfortable going to church when they are no tliving in a manner suitable to God's word. Im not preaching, but ive been in that position before. My miom was raise din church but is ALWAYS hesitatn to join me at church. (She only goe son major hoplidays and thats against her better judgement as well)
2006-07-06 16:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by E L M S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are simply not religious. They don't believe in the big, invisible man in the sky and all the mythology about the tree and the fruit and the whale and the snake and the ark. Some people just believe in themselves with out a bunch of made-up stuff by others.
If religion is important for you, and it's not for her, she may not be the woman for you.
2006-07-06 16:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably isn't religious. She could have had a bad experience at a church at one time. Why does it matter so much? If she doesn't want to go to church, she shouldn't have to.
2006-07-06 16:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's agnostic and/or atheist, and doesn't like sitting through a ceremony that means nothing to her. Or maybe she had a bad experience involving a church in the past and it makes her uncomfortable. In either case, you should probably ask *her*, not us.
2006-07-06 16:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by DakkonA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her if she is a practicing.....well whatever your religion is. Maybe she is against religion.
Just ask her dude...what can go wrong? A little truth always sets people free...and I commend you for being a church going man. My fiancee is a non-practicing catholic, but because I go to church every Sunday, he still goes with me...even if I have to translate for him LOL
2006-07-06 16:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Tida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be against her beliefs. I personnally steer clear of churches unless I have a wedding or funeral. But I'd probably go check it out if one of my friends asked me too. Maybe she's too busy. Maybe she was molested by a priest when she was young and doesn't want to see him every Sunday.
2006-07-06 16:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by PHD-NDN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why she won't go to church, but don't get disgouraged u keep going then maybe she will too. but before anything else pray for her and continue to for as long as it takes. God's got everyone's best in mind
2006-07-06 16:24:11 · answer #11 · answered by faithe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋