How Can I Show My Maturity?

Question

I just recieved a call from the guy that means a lot to me. He thinks that it won't work out between us because I am four years younger than he is. I was just wondering if this has happened to anybody else and, if so, how can I "show him" that I am mature enough to handle a relationship and how can I "win him over". Thanks.

Answer 1

He's just being nice. What he really means is "I don't want to go to jail for you, because all I want is sex"

Answer 2

it's happened to me... are you sure it's a maturity thing and not something else? if it is a maturity thing, then be grown about the whole situation. don't beg him to be with you. tell him that even if he doesn't want to be with you, you still want to be in his life, even as a friend. that will show him that you aren't as immature as he may think. how old are you both anyway?

Answer 3

Actions speak louder than words. Think before you speak. Don't just "act" mature, be mature. If you're acting, he'll see through the act eventually and dump you.

Answer 4

well,if he really cares,then ur age is,nt no problem as long as u are more than 18,normally to be a matured person u need to behave like one,but it,s no use tryin to be what u are,nt,,,,because he will surely know sooner or later,,,so,i advice u to just be urself,,,,,,

Answer 5

Don't worry about it. He may be doing you a big favor. Take what he stated as a grain of salt. Chalk it up as experience and use it as a tool for your next significant other.

Answer 6

trying to show off ur maturity will mean that ur immature.....

Answer 7

you can only convince him if you're both in a relationship. it's different when you'e ust aying it that actually doing it.