2006-07-06 15:55:43 · 25 answers · asked by i love james 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who's the girl? if she's not a close friend(and with that i mean a harmless one) or a relative, then there's no reason to. think first before you act.
2006-07-06 15:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by AJ BA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! just cuz he hugged another girl dosent mean that he's like cheating on you or something. havnt you ever hugged another guy since you guys have been going out? if so its the same thing. and if you reallyliked this guy then you would have trusted him and would not have even thought about breaking up with him!
2006-07-06 22:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm....i wouldnt break up with him just yet. He may have been hugging someone, like an old friend or something. I mean if it was visible that something else wwas going on that i would think about it or have a talk with him, but if it was only a friendly hug i wouldnt worry about it.
2006-07-06 23:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by summerluvN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think that is over rationalising things. you need to talk to him and express the way you feel. Tell him that you did not like that he was hugging another girl. There is probably a good explaination for it. you need to put yourself in his shoes. Perhaps she was sad and felt obliged to hug her. there are a million reasons. you need to ask him what the issue is. It is ok to be concerned, but not overly. Its more than likely something harmless.
2006-07-06 23:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by ness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy that your boyfriend is a "hugger". Many women complain that their men are not comfortable showing affection. As long as the hug involved no pelvic action, ignore it. There is no reason for you to be jealous or to dump him.
2006-07-06 23:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Annette R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't break up with him over it. Haven't you ever hugged your other guy friends. I know I do. If he was grabbing her butt or anything like that you might want to worry though. I think that you should be ok though.
2006-07-06 22:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by sexylilgirl_idealmgf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless there was something more going on than hugging... That would be a little over zealous to breakup just because of that!
2006-07-06 22:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about body language. Was it a lustful hug or an innocent, friendly hug?
2006-07-06 22:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by David R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ofense but braking up with your boyfriend because you saw him hugging another girl is ridicolous, unless he was hugging her in a way that only you should be treated as. before anything you should talk to him about this, it wouldn't hurt to talk
2006-07-06 23:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugging is pretty innocent on the scale of stuff he could do. Give him the benefit of the doubt and ask him about it.
2006-07-06 22:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hugging? if you are in the philippines... yes dump him.. but i guess hugging it's just okay as long as the intention is clean.. talk to your guy first... but yeah, when you see your guy hugging someone that would surely raise a question...
2006-07-06 22:58:21 · answer #11 · answered by [][][][][][][][][] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋