ok well what should i do because i feel like he doesn`t care for me anymore. please keep in mind that i`m only 13 &he is 14. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-06 15:53:28 · 6 answers · asked by ourangel16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I remember my bf at 13 and I remember that the relationship just sort of drifted off. Things change sometimes in ways you don't intend or expect.
However, he may have gotten shy about it. Maybe he got teased. The only way to find out is to ask. If it's too embarassing to do in person, write him a note and give it to him. "Do you still want to be my boyfriend?" would do.
If he says yes, you might want to wait until you are together (or write another note) to ask him to please pay you more attention-- and tell him what kind of attention you mean. You might ask him if there is something you are doing that he doesn't like. Talking about it is always the cure to not knowing. Good luck with him or the next cutie you see!
2006-07-06 16:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by usmousie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.... let's see. How long has he been ignoring you? Because if it's been just for a few hours or a day or two, he could just be really busy or preoccupied with something. But if he's been ignoring you any longer than that, I'd suggest giving him the boot and moving on. You're 13 right? It's only the begining of your dating life, the 'tip of the iceberg' if you like analogies. If he's not treating you with the curtesy and respect that you feel you want/need, then he's really not worth worrying about. I'm sure you like him a lot (or he wouldn't be your bf) but I'm 16, so 13 wasn't too long ago for me when i get to thinking about it.... and i really liked my little bf i had when i was 13 and called it 'love' but really and truly, i didn't find my first REAL love until i was well into 16. Trust me, you'll know the difference when you find it. So like i've already said, if he's not seeming to care anymore, then you should drop him on his 14 yr old butt. :)
2006-07-06 16:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by sillygoose08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, puh-LEEZE!
Just TELL HIM you feel he's been ignoring you...this is good parctice for what is known as "HONESTY and OWNING YOUR FEELINGS"
If he doesn't respect your feelings you must ask yourself, "Do I want to give my heart to someone who pisses on it?"
If the answer is NO! then I think you know what you need to do. If the answer is yes...you need to find a good counselor.
This is "practice time" for being an adult- LEARN.
2006-07-06 16:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing, he's a teenage boy. They are hormonal, and insecure and I bet you he's terrified of you. Just talk to him, ask if he still wants to be your boyfriend and if he doesn't say "Of course!" then dump him and move on.
2006-07-06 15:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just playing games with you, maybe you should move on. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-06 16:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by puppet7112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-07-06 15:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by Paul F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋