i love him so much & cant stand to let him go. it kills me every day and night and its only been 2 days since we broke up. the problem is he is afraid of gettin so attached to me and me gettin so attached to him. he doesnt wana anyone to get hurt. but its too late cuz i love him too much already. someone please help me! when he broke up w/ me he said "i dont deserve to be on this earth" cuz hes attempted suicide many times. and since we were friends b4 we got back together and i said i didnt have patience for relationships and he said " u were happy when u were w/ me". is there ANY hope 4 us at all? tell me there is...
2006-07-06 15:51:57 · 20 answers · asked by ms.nonyabuisness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel so ****** empty without him. i cry about him constantly. i lay awake thinking about him, hes in my thoughts. i told him i dont hate him for it but im terribly sad. i havent been this sad in a damn long time...
2006-07-06 15:54:54 · update #1
his friends have told me that since the breakup hes felt awful. ive felt realy awful as well, just completelly drained. does he love me too and he knew he had to let me go?
2006-07-06 16:15:51 · update #2
Before long he will realise how he feels about you and come back.
2006-07-06 15:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by catsup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship sounds like drama! You both need to take a long vacation or "break" away from each other with no contact at all and then when you come back talk about how you felt when you were apart. After someone usually breaks up with someone they really cared for it takes a good month or 2 to start getting on with you life.
2006-07-06 15:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may hurt you when I say it but, GET OVER IT! You are going to have live through the pain. Honestly, why would you want someone who would torture you like this? Find something to occupy your time, that will get your mind off of him. These things take time, but you are not going to feel any better sitting in your pj's and eating a ton of ice cream. Get him professional help. I will not lie to you. There is a very slim chance that you will get back together. Focus on getting out, and getting him help.
2006-07-06 16:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by soulfli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both should be seeing a counselor seriously, the relationship can't survive so much pain this soon. Seek professional help there a lot of places to get it. Life is too precious to play with this.
2006-07-06 15:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, pay attention 2 your friends, if they are saying he dealt with u like crap, possibilities are he did! Love makes u blind and routinely u cant see how your boyfriend treats you. Both ppl in the relationship should make an effort to peer and talk to one another (equal on each side), if he didnt have time for then you, he wont have time for you now. Transfer on, and if u have the urge to name him or randomly stop via his situation, call YOUR buddies!!!! Whenever a guy says " child i'll exchange" its a load of C.R.A.P!!!!!!!! (suppose my i do know!)
2016-08-08 23:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by jarod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are hurting. I hope you start feeling better.
Love means giving someone the choice...now it's your turn..to
choose to move on.
thinking....it's not really love it's more attachment... ...okay wait yes there is hope...if you let go. Things will work out for
you with or without him....Maybe call him up, if he is your
friend he will talk to you with respect for your feelings...just
remember the same when you talk to him...it goes both ways
when you really love someone.
2006-07-06 16:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by ljean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard of the old folk saying 'Misery loves company'?
Somehow, you are feeling his pain and you will walk to the end of the earth for him.
In order for you to seek happiness again. I suggest you seek counseling immediately and eventually group therapy (there are many people in the same dilemma as yourself), this should help you through your transition.
2006-07-06 15:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by SLOWTHINKER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, pay attention two your peers, if they are saying he dealt with u like crap, possibilities are he did! Love makes u blind and routinely u cant see how your boyfriend treats you. Both ppl within the dating must make the effort to peer and speak to one another (identical on all sides), if he didnt have time for then you definately, he wont have time for you presently. Move on, and if u have the urge to name him or randomly give up via his location, CALL YOUR FRIENDS!!!! at any time when a man says " child i will difference" its a load of C.R.A.P!!!!!!!! (feel my i KNOW!)
2016-08-20 10:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before i go any further you should know that it's not good to let your b.f know how much you love him you may not understand but someday you will, well if you think he broke up loving you tell him how you feel that his hurting you by not being with you, tell him all that you feel, in a relationship the most important thing is honesty remember that always
2006-07-06 15:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it!! apparently he thinks the grass is greener on the other side. Let him find out, n hope that when he does come to his senses that U are still available!!!
2006-07-06 15:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋