my grandmother is having her vowels renewed for her 25th ann. and the orig. usher )my cuz) will be outa town so i asked my best guy friend how is sweet but he hasnt contacted me about it. but if he dont come the we will be short a guy and i will walk back down the isle by myself and i will be the only one by myself. would it be a catastrophe if he cant come?
2006-07-06 15:46:45 · 12 answers · asked by hotchikdancer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
srry vows. its late and im tired i just cant sleep
2006-07-06 16:00:07 · update #1
well, call him and tell him you need an answer by a certain date like a few days or week or something if he don't want to or don't respond ask someone else. Always have a back who ever u chose especially if u dont want to walk alone or ask someone at wedding. but, tell him how important it would be for you and u will need to know b4 so u can make arrangements. he should have already said yes or no. that way you can give advance warning to someone else to ask.
2006-07-06 16:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wont be a disaster. My best friend just renewed her vows and we didnt ahve chaperrones...the nest man waited up front with teh groom and the MOH and myself walked solo down teh aisle. It turned out just fine!
2006-07-06 16:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by E L M S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your grandmother that your fellow isn't sure he can do it, so that she can ask someone else. She will probably be happy to be able to confer the honor on someone she knows and cares about. (Believe it or not, the idea of having "a date" at a wedding is a very recent innovation.)
2006-07-06 23:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a problem,you just be there for your grandmother.Maybe your guy friend needs some better directions on what to wear,transportation,etc.Also, inform him the [bride] probably has plenty of dishes,so a present is not required,only his presence!!
2006-07-06 17:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mebbe he doesn't wanna go cos he feels outta place or shy ard ur family, and doesn't know how to tell u w/o hurting ur feelings. It's really not a big deal.
(PS: At first i thot u meant he can't "come"..... hmmm..... now DAT's quite a problem!)
2006-07-06 22:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by ka_franz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab someone you know and recognize and ask them to escort you. If not do it alone no biggie you will be accompanied by family anyway.
2006-07-06 16:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by larechiga26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask someone else to be a back-up another guy friend or family member!
2006-07-06 15:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aflack! Huh!? Are you sure you didn't mean bowels?? God sakes man snap out of it!
2006-07-06 15:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean vows. that's a lot to ask someone who isn't family
2006-07-06 15:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new model
2006-07-07 13:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by patricia h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋