to like two guys at the same time if they are best friends????
2006-07-06 15:35:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea im not going out with anyone! im trying to choose one!
2006-07-06 15:38:34 · update #1
First of all, let me ask you this..... how well do you know both of these guys??? Depending on how well you know them, you can make a list of flaws and strengths of each guy. If it helps,write them down on the paper and see which one outweighs the other. Also, do both of them like you?? You claim that you like both of them but how do you know they both like you? You can take your pick, but will he accept you? Even if they both like you and if you choose one over the other, don't you think the one you didn't choose will feel hurt and it might effect his friendship with the one you do choose? I'm not trying to make it confusing, I'm just wondering if both of these guys have asked you out? Well, the worst part is that they're best friends and you don't want to ruin their friendship. Make a decision that will benefit everyone and not just you. Remember, it takes two to make a relationship.
2006-07-06 15:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's ok to like two guys at the same time, but their friends and it can ruin their friendship. However, some boys are stupid and thinks it great to date the same person because they are going to think something is going to happen between the three of you guys, and I hope you don't let that happen. So be careful and pick 1
2006-07-06 15:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by armoni_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You are going to end up hurting both of them and worst at least one of them is going to end up hurting you, emotionally or physically. We are not perfect so i can understand your inclination, we all have some undesirable trait but be a responsible person and make a decision that best please the situation. if its a case where one of them is interested in you find out which one you prefer and make a tough decision. Its rough being a human being, i should know i am also a human being...don't know much about some other person in the world (must be alien or something)
2006-07-06 15:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Leunamme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its alright to like two guys at once if their best friends as long as your not going out with them at the same time that would turn into a total disaster.
2006-07-06 15:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Heather L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO WAY!!!!!!!!!!! Well let me rephrase that you can like them but dont date both of them that totally goes against any friendship code! There is an unspoken rule between friends that you just dont mess with the others interest ! Would you want some guy you liked to mess with one of your girlfriends? If you dont mind then thats why you had to ask this question otherwise dont go there!
2006-07-06 15:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea Its Ok!!! As long as your not dating them at the same time. Thats happened to me and your going to have to pick one.
2006-07-06 15:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy that is asking for big trouble unless you go up to both of them at the same time and say "i like both of you and wanna sleep with both of you at the same time" if you are not willing to do that then i suggest you pick one
because someone will get hurt, friendships will be lost
boy it could get really ugly
2006-07-06 15:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like both its ok but if you're doing more than just liking then no for you are putting at risk their friendship-depends really how they both feel about you and again like is ok but if more then gets a bit tricky.
2006-07-06 15:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it will cause too much heart ache!!!! and you don't want to split up the friends. The best thing to do is to stop liking them, and find a different guy to like.
2006-07-06 15:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by littlemrsmac2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya but u have 2 pick 1
2006-07-06 15:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋