My friend just broke up with her boyfriend (for the 3rd time) and this time they aren't getting back together. She is heartbroken. How can i make her feel better? Just not involving getting her with another guy or talking to her sympatheticly. oh and getting her back with her old boy friend
***thanks***
2006-07-06 15:31:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls Night! Take her out and have fun.
2006-07-06 15:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am going through a similar situation right now. The only thing is this girl here is prego. I of coarse am not real good with crying girls for I was taught not to cry so it is hard for me to know what to do. So far I have just listened to her moan about her ex and and spill tears of the nile river and all I can do is listen try to give the best advice I can and rub her back while she crys. It seems to help her calm down. So all I can suggest is maybe doing this too. Good Luck with your friend and best wishes to her too.
2006-07-06 22:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by iamkaymie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do things with her to take her mind off of it. You know spend girl time. Let her man bash and talk about what is going on. Try a shopping trip or going to the movies or something that u both enjoy doing together. And just let her know that u will be there for a ahoulder to cry on and just try to keep her busy.
2006-07-06 22:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to encourage her to get back with that guy. And depending on how long you know her, find something that both of you have not done together in a long time and do that together. make sure its an outdoor activity so other persons can contribute to a joyful moment.
2006-07-06 22:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Leunamme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing exactly what a true friend should do, your there for her, be supportive, encouraging,and try to get a smile out of her , even if it means mooning her while she has tears in her eyes!! Seriously, you need to get her out with a group of friends,laughter is good medicine they say, and the sooner you start the better!! WELL WISHES!!
2006-07-06 22:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by trekkie1972566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her when she down an out, an stay off the subjest of the x. go out dancing are to a movie hang with fun people so she can aleast get a laugh an try an get over the jerk.
2006-07-06 22:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by cris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do somthing together go out to dinner show her single is fun and she doesnt need a man go to a low key bar do your hair and makeup and listen to music and have a good time thts what i would do
2006-07-06 22:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by brandi_23sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her realize that she doesnt need him. Convince her that she doesnt need him, and somehow turn her saddness into hatred. make her hate him instead. If it doesnt work, then theres nothing left but all the things you listed above.
2006-07-06 22:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her but don't push. If she wants to go out , let it be her idea. The old saying "THIS TO SHALL PASS" is very real.
2006-07-06 22:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by ladyj289 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I would do is try taking her out maybe just to have fun... theres nothing else you can do but just be there for her.
2006-07-06 22:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by Heather L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try 2 get her mind off of it. be nice 2 her alot. help her meet new people.
2006-07-06 22:35:21 · answer #11 · answered by Mary P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋