I get frusterated with my husband that has a much lower one ...it gets me in totrouble...should I cool it or fuel it???
2006-07-06 15:29:42 · 20 answers · asked by JeNe 4 in Health ➔ Other - Health
two time a day ( or more would be great) although I get it more like once every two days....
2006-07-06 15:37:19 · update #1
i'm a 23 year old mother of a 3 year old and wife of 6!! years!!
2006-07-06 15:40:52 · update #2
fuel it...I've been in a situation where it was the opposite and I hated it...drive him wild so he'll drive you wild....MANY HAPPY ORGASMS!!
2006-07-06 15:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have talked to your husband about this. But you need to talk more in order to come to a mutual understanding of the situation and hopefully that leads to a comprimise to the situation. Options - more sex with husband to satisfy you, Masterbation (yet I'm sure you are already there and unsatisfied), How about opening up your sex lives together - swinging, threesomes (guy and/or girl), becoming a stripper, role playing, etc. I'm just throwing out ideas. When you talk to your husband you have to discuss all options whether you like them or not. Only then can an educated decision be made. Enjoy the high sex drive while you can.
2006-07-06 22:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by TBor ROCKS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a strong sex drive if you're married. I would recommend therapy, however...may help to understand why yours is 'high' and his is 'low' (which may just be in comparison to each other). If it's causing problems between the two of you, go ahead and get it worked out now. Easier than facing years of hurt over it.
2006-07-06 22:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, if your in your mid 30's, thats perfectly normal. If your husband is also in his mid 30's, his sex drive is normally lower. So, the only true remedy to your dilema would be to find a young 21 yr old in his prime to meet yours, lol. Or, masturbate more and deal with your husband not wanting it as much.
2006-07-06 22:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only bad if you have a husband with a non-existent sex drive. By all means, fuel it! Try the big C. (cucumber). Combine that with hot guys online....it works for me!
2006-07-06 22:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a bad thing at all im 21 and my sex drive is very high too email me if u want some ideas of how to keep it down a little or get your husbands up (kids may read this lol) moonlightknightsprincess@yahoo.com
2006-07-07 01:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by moonlightknightsprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only bad when you need stuff like S&M. If you have kids and your sex drive is keeping you from those responsibilites, it's a problem. Fuel your desires with hubby. If he can't do it for you, you might have to find someone who can!
2006-07-06 22:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by leafsfan1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding! A woman with a strong sex drive is a rare and welcome thing. Tell your husband to get it up or make room for you to have some fun on the side!
2006-07-06 22:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by city_boy_36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you, get to a legitimate sex therapist quickly. Good luck.
Don't call each other names, you're both afraid of the difference.
2006-07-06 22:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by whoknew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a woman with a high sex drive is a GOOD thing. you need to tell your husband that you need to be satisfied, may he will try to do it himself or let you find someone to help him out.
2006-07-06 22:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by quietinttense9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try to figure out why youre both not on the same page?
2006-07-06 22:34:33 · answer #11 · answered by snakeman11426 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋