i feel like my life is never going to get better and I am never going to get away from my abusive BF... I just feeel like the only way to make it better is to die.. am I right?
2006-07-06 15:26:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
You have several options. There are abuse hotlines in the phone book. You could go to the battered womens shelter. Call a trusted friend and have her take pictures if it's physical abuse or go to the hospital and tell them what is going on. But the first phone call I would make would be to 911. You need to be a little more specific as to what the abuse is. But there is always a way out. If you decide to press charges do not make the mistake of accepting his apology of I'm never going to do it again. They always do. My best friend used to get slammed up against the brick fireplace and have knives thrown at her. She got out and stayed with us. I don't know your age but can you go home to your parents house if you don't already live there? You can contact me on my website at pmsfts@yahoo.com. Maybe I can help you work this out.
2006-07-06 15:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by pmsfts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to kill myself once. Of course, I was never abused. I never even really had a bad life at all, I was just depressed. Seriously, I'm so glad I didn't kill myself. I am SO happy now. It was just a phase for me. I don't have depression, and don't take any medications, my life just changed. There are things you can do to get away from your bf. First of all, NEVER be alone with him. Second of all, learn some self defense. Also, talk to a counselor or someone who can help you get away from him. Talk to the cops if you have to. Get a restraining order. If you think he's worth staying with, he's not. Obviously he doesn't care about you. Leave him. Get out of there and start a new, happy life.
2006-07-06 15:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this:
Nothing lasts forever and everything will pass. Good and bad. You don't want to die or you would not be on here looking for advice. I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years and yes it was very difficult to get out of. I had to just sneak out and go to a Friends. Abusive people seek out weak people that they can manipulate. And they NEVER change, which means you have to change. You have to get stronger and find a safe haven. Maybe a parent or Friend or sibling. Go find whoever you know will keep you safe and let them know how much you need them.
2006-07-06 15:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by skidmark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not. I was in a horrible situation with my ex-wife. She is still trying to life by the motto "if I cannot have him no one can." The police do nothing! I felt like you, but I stick with it and things got better. Believe me they will get better for you, and you will be a wiser and happer person in the future. Just get away from the boyfirend, and realize that YOU are the only one that can make you happy. Don't worry about being alone because you are NOT alone. Remember, everything happens for a reason and you will get through this.
2006-07-06 15:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by wizard8100@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are absolutely NOT right.
If your boyfriend is abusive, you should leave him now. There are many organization that can help you with this. You should seek an immediate help.
If you are not sure what to do, call your local police BEFORE he becomes abusive and call their NON-EMERGENCY number to seek advise. (this is not the same thing as turning him in) They will refer you to an organization or one of their member to help you. Don't wait until he actually has a chance to hurt you.
If he is already hurting you, call the police NOW.
If you have a close friend, talk to her/him. Do everything you can go get away from him. Sooner the better.
2006-07-06 15:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make it better you have to die? Really? Darlin', DON"T DO IT! DON"T THINK UPON IT!
LOOK UP*"+`' No problem is BIGGER than God. He is holding you as you speak. Our Creator does NOT like UGLY!! BE the change you want to see in your life. It's a wondrous world of joy*"and no one has to stay in a relationship that harms. WALK AWAY and seek council from the Lord. He will guide your steps. One door opens as another closes.
Killing is a mortal sin. Risking your Soul to the devil's hands is eternal agony and horror in Hell. No one and nothing is worth that! KICK THIS TRASH TO THE CURB! Do't let anyone STOMP on your HaPpY! You are a worthy, beloved child of the Almighty God. He Loves you and so do I. Now, you've got to Love yourself. ~~~
Press on to the getting on of living, Loving, laughing and Love some more.~*'*'`
May God ever keep you in His perfect peace, dear Friend. Amen.
2015-01-16 01:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by Donna g Cannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me that just sounds like you are trying to take the easy way out. the best thing you could do is dump the abusive boyfriend, and move on with your life. if you are afraid of him taking violent action against you, call the police and have him removed and file for a restraining order. meanwhile stay with family and friends until you feel safe. Take care of yourself, you dont need someone else to do it for you. Try to better yourself through school or some kind of activity that makes you happy. good luck, wish you the best.
2006-07-06 15:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously asking that question on a website? If you are serious, NO - DYING IS NOT THE WAY TO GO. In five years when you are no longer with this a@@hole, you will laugh at the thought of killing yourself...
Get out of the relationship. Walk away. Stay with a friend. Go to a hotel. Just leave. You can do it.
2006-07-06 15:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by MissSubversive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should start thinking about yourself and if he is abusive you need to leave him behind and never see him again. Just like the ole saying there are plenty more fish in the sea and I am sure there is somebody out there who is not abusive. He more than likely make you feel worthless and that is why you feel like killing yourself, but believe me don't give him the satisfaction of your going through with ending your life. He would only brag about it later. Life is to short to live like that. Lose him!
2006-07-06 15:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by nighttimewkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know that it is wrong so get help and get OUT.
There is lots of help out there if you ask, and you no longer need to take the sh** that you have been taking. You deserve a better life, and dieing is NOT the answer.
Call 911 and get out and start to really live your life! If you feel like chatting IM me.
Good Luck
2006-07-06 15:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by misscanada_y2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋