I've been going out with this guy and recently he's been acting weird like we arent together. Im wonderin what he thinks our relationship is. I think his idea is different form mine. I want to ask him what he classifies me as? One of my friends says i shouldnt ask because my feelings might get hurt. But then again i think its best for me to find out now from him instead of me finding out form other people. I need to kno so i can just let it go if i find out the relationship isnt where i thought it was. Should i ask or not?
2006-07-06 15:19:56 · 5 answers · asked by MzChamillinator 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I say think about what you want from a relationship first- have that all worked out for yourself and then approach him and ask him what / how he sees whatever it is that you two are doing ( hanging out, just friends, dating, seriously dating, only seeing each other) and then compare how his answer matches your expectations.
Then you should know what to do - don't ever settle girl!
2006-07-06 15:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Alauria B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask, and forget the play acting and drama. The straightest line is the best line--Ask a direct question and you will get the answer faster, cleaner, and without the crap.
2006-07-06 22:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by mjcariati1971 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to ask and get it over with (if that's the case). At least you will know one way or another whether you are wasting your time or not. It's your life and your time.
2006-07-06 22:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would never ask.
People tend to act weird as they take things as granted.
Why don't you try to give him a little dose of his medicine?
Next time you are together just act as you are alone, see what happens.
2006-07-06 22:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by joseclaudio2001us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him because communcation is vital is all relationships.
2006-07-06 22:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋