hey, I think I just made my girlfriend mad at me. I'm not sure if she's mad at me, she isn't acting like it. But two days ago I told her I couldn't make it to our date. I need different ways to make it up to her. I'll do anything to show her i'm sorry, ANYTHING. What sould I do?
2006-07-06 15:16:51 · 29 answers · asked by vampire_ryooshi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason I couldn't make it to our date is because I had work to do.
2006-07-06 15:17:43 · update #1
I think that you should devote a week to her and only her to make it up to her. Buy her flowers the whole week,or chocolates. Take her out to dinner, or suprise her with a pinic in the park with champiange. Tell her how much you love her everyday and that you cannot spend another day without her. I think that will do the trick. Make her feel like the luckiest woman in the world to have a boyfriend as nice as you and make her feel special, so that her friends are jealous enough to make their boyfriends do what you are doing to make up for missing your date with her.
2006-07-06 15:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Jamie ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you had to work then I don't see why she would be mad. Just reschedule the date. It seems that you are trying way too hard to please her and I'm not sure that that is healthy. It makes me question your relationship altogether. Does she normally get over-the-top angry when things don't go her way? I don't understand why you still feel the need to go out of your way to apologize. A simple...I'm so sorry I couldn't make it to our date, let's make another date and do something special, should have been good enough. Maybe you are overreacting and she really isn't angry at all. I think you two need to open up the communication lines a little wider. But anyway if you really feel the need to make it up to her I suggest something romantic, like maybe revisiting the spot of your first date/kiss, hand her a single rose and tell her how much you love her.
2006-07-06 22:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by onnyxx13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you have nothing to make up. DO YOU ENJOY WORKING MORE THAN BEING WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND? I didn't think so. So then if you could not help having to work, how is it your fault that you're having to support both you and probably her *** too? Give yourself a break, man. She should be proud to have a man that is good enough to get out and work and bring home the bacon, unselfish enough to give up his fun time in order to provide food, gas, etc. Damn, if that upsets her, find yourself a woman that works and give yourself a chance at a better life with a 2 family income, at least SHE'LL appreciate what you bring to the relationship.
Don't you dare cater to her pouts or the damands will never end. You were doing what was right and she should be unhappy yes, but she should also understand and be supportive, after all, if she's serious, you'll have your whole lives ahead. By caving, you'll make a princess that you'll never please (sorry, I have a niece like this and I want so bad to get her to see how badly she treats her husband who is a hard worker).
2006-07-06 22:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a night together...start off by giving her flowers with a nice and sappy card (girls love that)...then do dinner together after that you could do a few things depending on where you live..such as walk on the beach,go to a movie,a drive,or just a nice walk looking at the stars.Good luck
2006-07-06 22:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Umm...try taking her out to a nice dinner or doing something she wants to do. If you had work to do and you told her ahead of time that you couldn't make it, I don't really see why she should be mad at you....she's kinda acting silly!
2006-07-06 22:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by beauvoir_babe1865 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your sorry, sit down and talk to her and let her know what happened and that you weren't ditching her. And of course bring her something she loves, flowers, candy, a really funny I'm sorry card, anything but make sure she knows. Oh set up another date. Make it special
2006-07-06 22:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by reynacatherinelopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhmmm...It would be nice iof u surprised her. I love it when my boyfriend surprises me out of the blue. He'll call me and tell me to get dressed and b ready in a certain time, then take me out. What don't u try doing something like that. Take some of the things she likes and combine them to create one big surprise. You can surprise her with a mini picnic in the park with all her favorite foods or something to that extent. Then explain to her how ur sorry for canceling on the date and kiss her!!! Girls like surprises!
2006-07-06 22:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by greeneyes.brownskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a good reason for her to be mad...if you don't have a job you cant' take her out. The only suggestion I might have is take her somewhere she's been wanting to go and bring her flowers.
2006-07-06 22:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you couldn't make the date .
Due to Work,
Its abit selfish for her to be upset ~!
Its not like you didn't take her out ,
because you wanted to be with the guys~!
If you feel you need to make it up ti her,
Ask her to pick a day ( one you don't have to work on)
And you are all her,s
Good Luck,
~*~*~*~*~*~*`Peace.
2006-07-06 22:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be mad if you had work that had to be done. BUT, if you're insistant on helping her to get over her mad spell, try flowers and a simple "I'm sorry".
2006-07-06 22:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by berkeleygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋