I dont understand. I know im not ugly. I look exactly like my avatar except with brown hair, cute black glasses and a little rounder face. My sisters always have boyfriends and ive been single for 1 year and a half. My friend liked me and wanted to go out with me but because he likes my girlfriend longer he went out with her. I just cant seem to find anyone and when i dont theyre taken. UHHHHHHHHHHHH HELP ME
2006-07-06 15:10:51 · 29 answers · asked by guitar_playin_gnome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe because you are too unsure about yourself
2006-07-06 15:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can help you trust me. I have been through what you are talking about. Chances are, you are not slutty enough or you don't drink enough. These are things that EVERYONE does like a bunch of followers. Let's not even mention the explicit drug usage that is affecting everyone now. Just don't worry about it because it will give you stress and gray hairs. Look at it this way, at least you're a female and how much longer could it possibly be until 100 guys want to get at you because society simply works that way. Good Luck.
2006-07-06 22:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can sympathize. . .I not beautiful or anything, but I not ugly either. I am social and still have never had a boyfriend--ever--while my friends always have tons of guys after them. I don't understand it really. My friends tell me that guys are scared of my because I am smart, but I thought that that was a dumb reason. . .but then maybe that's exactly my problem! Could some trait like that be it for you too? I really hope you have better luck than I at finding someone!
2006-07-06 22:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by silenthavens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur trying too hard to not be single anymore, just go with the flow and u'll see that u'll find a good guy. Being single is not that bad u can deal with it for a little while longer. personally i rather be by myself then with a bad guy, I think everything comes at the correct time, so be patient. Good luck : )
2006-07-06 22:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more a topic for a discussion, not just a Q/A. Feel free to contact me if you want to talk more about it :)
When it comes down to it, though, it really depends on a lot of things. It could be any number of things from your age to your personality to just plain bad luck.
Wait it out, especially if you aren't in but are going to go to college. You'll find someone eventually.
2006-07-06 22:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Noodle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel too bad about being single there are far worse things than that. For instance it's much worse to be with someone that you don't really like all that well or for someone to be with you just because they want to be with someone and they don't like you as someone should like a girl they are going out with. So cheer up and enjoy being single until the RIGHT one comes along and they will.
2006-07-06 22:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by jljdc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetie, it isn't about looks, it really is about who you are inside. Is it possible you are putting out negative vibes without knowing it. Maybe it's just that you don't appeal to the average guy, which may be a good thing for you, as the right guy is still out there for you. Smile alot and be friendly, and try to think what makes you different from your friends.
2006-07-06 22:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. It is hard. I have gone single for much longer periods of time than that. I am 29 and still single. I know it must be hard though. Don't worry, you will find the right person. Jesus loves you.
2006-07-06 22:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by jamesdkral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you have to relax - men will come. In the meantime, just go out there and enjoy what you enjoy. You never know where you're going to meet your Prince Charming, so go do what you like and make yourself an even better person - for you!
2006-07-06 22:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your guitar to the park set down on a park bench and start playing your guitar and some guy that loves music will show up and you can go from there?
be careful
2006-07-06 22:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop looking - the right person will come along. Stop working so hard at looking for someone and concentrate on making you the best person you can be.
It will happen when you least expect it! It's happened to me that way twice!
2006-07-06 22:14:15 · answer #11 · answered by TxMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋