i want him to wait till we married before we make sex.
2006-07-06 15:10:11 · 14 answers · asked by afua2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on what your common goals are. If you guys are spiritual then base it on that. If you are not then base your belief on something solid that you guys both believe in. Tell him that the best things in life are the things worth waiting for.
Take it from me, I waited until my wedding day and so many of my girlfriends afterwards told me that they wished they would have waited too. After it is gone, it's gone forever.
What better person to have something so precious of a gift but your devoted loving husband.
I was a unique case and so proud of myself because a girls like you and I are very very precious and hard to find.
Keep your good stuff girl and don't give in to nobody!
Bijou
2006-07-06 15:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bijou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's honorable for you to wait to have sex. If he won't wait, then maybe he's not a guy you really want to spend your life with. If he can't respect you in this way--that's pretty telling. If he's not willing to wait, I say find yourself someone who thinks more like you do.
2006-07-06 15:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by crazygonuts 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Communcation is the key, tell him that you want to have sex when your married and everything. If he still wants to push you on to do it, STOP, only you can control if you want it or not. If he forces it I call it relationship rape. If he does that, I don't think you found your right guy. If he loves you and trusts you, he should understand your feelings. If he doesn't, then he just want ***.
2006-07-06 15:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no! lol
If he truely loves you then he will wait. If he does not want to wait and keeps pushing and even threatens, then he is the wrong man for you!
If he cannot keep his pants zipped for you, then he cannot keep his pants zipped for anyone else!
2006-07-06 15:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by menndebi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say this is pretty cut and dry, there should be no convincing here. If you tell him and he is not willing to wait then find someone who is if this is truly something you want to do.
2006-07-06 15:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him. If he loves you then he will respect that. If he want wait then he is not right for you. Thats a fact
2006-07-06 15:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like that other person said. If he won't wait for you then he's not worth it, lose him now before you give him a piece of yourself.
2006-07-06 15:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely loves you he will, if not then better you find out now.A relationship based on sex alone is no good.
2006-07-06 15:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to convince him if he loves you he will respect you and he will wait.
2006-07-06 15:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by wingnut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck with that lol
i mean if you're lucky enough to convince him, you have a good guy there.
but uhh i don't know any guys that would wait for that.
2006-07-06 15:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by 2hot2handle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋