My roommate age 22 male is still a virgin and scared of women.What should he do?

Answer 1

get him out to a big world, get some of your friends that are girls and talk with him. Stay with him and talk with your friends but try to get your friend in the subject also so he won't get left out.

Answer 2

You are by no means alone and you must not believe that everyone is having fantastic sexual adventures from the time they are 13 or whatever. If you are feeling the time is about right to lose your virginity that is because the time is right for you - it does not matter what anyone else is doing or you think they are doing or they say they are doing - this is not a race. If I might suggest try to improve your social circle by developing an interest in something both men and women enjoy - it might be a sport or night classes, a film club or charity work. A foreign language class might be good because you are forced to interact. Concentrate on developing social relationships and with luck the sexual side will follow. It's simple logic that the wider your social network is the greater chance you have of meeting a woman who is right for you. Congratulations on not smoking by the way.

Answer 3

Get a shower, put on some deodorant and such. If you want a "quick fix" to the situation I would suggest a bar. If you're looking for the "better fix" go walking in the city or just around the neighborhood - try a park or something. Stop being shy!

Answer 4

First, what made him scared fo women? was there past trauma? E.g. molestation by mother/sister or severe rejection????

He needs to find the underlying causes and come to terms with it.
E.g. confront them, seek counselling or get closure on it by telling them he's hurt

Then when he's completely at ease with himself- he'll know it's time to hunt or be hunted! Seriously, any chick who cares about whether virginity is lost is such a typical blonde off a US teen movie (aka Superficial, pretentious blonde bimbo).

Thinking about it now, i wouldn't mind a guy for a virgin


Good luck

Answer 5

Relax...he's not alone in that. There are lots of girls also in the same situation. Many others are probably not as honest as him about it and make up stories and lies about their conquests with women just to look good and cover up their fears. He probably hasn't met the right one, or type yet.....but he will....sooner or later. All things in their right time. Many people who are now married or going with someone, now tell similar stories about their past at that age.
P.S.- don't let the conspiracy mongers, gay bashers, or mental midget psychologists get to you.

Answer 6

I dated a guy that was 21 and a virgin, his friends gave him a hard time in his fraternity. He was great looking, but just really shy and insecure. When the right girl comes along, he will loose it..........either that or look into the priesthood.

Answer 7

He needs to just go out and talk to them. He shouldn't be trying to get anything from them except a good conversation. When he learns that we're all not that scary he should be doing better.

Answer 8

Lock him in a room with a hot girl. The results you can figure that out!

Answer 9

Let him loose his virginity on his own, he might just be shy, or mabey even gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

Answer 10

Help him not be afraid of them and what is the big deal about him beeing a virgian.

Answer 11

i think he should keep his pride high. whatever thing that has help him to keep his virginity is his pride. infact am proud of him. for being scared of women,that is his mentality and he should renew it. i mean all the women who he think they are scare him are all proud of him even his friends.