ME AND MY GIRLFREIND WENT TO A SKI PLACE WITH HER FAMILY IT WAS LATE NIGHT SO WE ALL WENT TO BED (WE WERE IN SEPERATE ROOMS)LIKE AT 12:00 I WENT TO GIVE HER A GOOD NIGHT KISS(AWWWWW) BUT INSTEAD I KISSED HER SISTER!!!!!!!! SHE YELLED AND HER PARENTS CAME AND THEY SAW ME ON TOP OF HER SO NOW MY GIRLFREIND'S PARENTS WONT LET ME GO OUT WIT HER CAUSE OF THE ACCIDENT AND MY GIRL FREIND THINKS IM CHEATING ON HER WIT HER SISTER WHAT SHOULD I DO AND DONT SAY CALL HER AND TELL HER THE STORY CAUSE HER DAD CALLED HIS PHONE COMPANY AND TOLD THEM TO BLOCK MY NUMBER
2006-07-06 15:00:37 · 28 answers · asked by fcukDIEG0. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find the opportunity to see her outside of the house take her flowers or something that is special fro her to apologize for the incident. Explain what happened. If she thinks you are cheating on her with her sister challenge her to ask her sister. If she still does not believe in you that means she does not trust you and a relationship with no trust is like a plant without water. It will eventually die.
2006-07-06 15:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by joscelyn2016 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, that was a big mistake!!! Time is the best answer for you... just give it time. Be good in the meantime and don't become a pest. Let them have some time, and then maybe she will listen. They can change their phone number, but she can't stay inside forever... sooner or later you will run into her. Just stay away from her sister... Don't let them catch you talking to another girl, either. It will be hard, but if you want her back, that is all you can do.
2006-07-06 22:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by Wasabandmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter....explain the whole thing.
By the way - why were you ON TOP of her to give her a good night kiss?(that seems a little over the top and probably scared the hellout of the sister)
Good luck!
2006-07-06 22:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Alauria B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O wow that's definately a tough situation. If you can't talk to her on the phone try to talk to her in person. Since you guys went out you know where she hangs out, so go there. Or you must be friends with the same people talk to them and have them set up a time/place for you to talk. Just tell her you want to explain, don't let her walk away. Once you get here to stay try to get her to listen. That's the only thing you can do, whether she belives you or not is up to her, but at least you can try to get her to listen.
2006-07-06 22:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by kathy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... If you really want to let her know exactly whats going on... You're going to have to talk to her! Whether its from your phone in person or any other way you can think of.
Tell her that this was just an honest mistake that you are truly sorry and maybe her sister can help you out on this one as well...
GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-06 22:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by PROMISCUOUS SEDUCTION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter. there is nothing better than something she can hold in her hands than a letter. just explain everything. and hello her sister should be backing you up, it's not like you have been pursuing her or anything. just be totally honest and tell her that it was a mistake. hell, you're not the first or the last person this has happened to! tell her that you wouldnt be trying so hard to set it right if you didnt care about her so much. and then write a letter to her father explaining your MISTAKE because you are a human and humans make MISTAKES. you didnt mean it and you would like to see him in person to explain yourself. invite him to coffee (pay for both of you, its a nice gesture) and then explain it to him calmy, rationally, but be affirmative. tell him that if he can't understand that, it's his problem and he will be hard-pressed to find someone else that cares about his daughter like you do.
if she (or her father) refuses to listen, then you don't want to associate with a family like that anyway. to err is human, to forgive is divine.
good luck
fizzy
2006-07-06 22:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by DFA79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been w/this girl a long time,she ought to know how u feel about her and wouldn't cheat on her.But if the relationship is fairly new,don't worry about it,let her go. If she's thinkin ur a cheater give her time,but i think she gonna think ur cheatin no matter if u get back together or not.I wouldn't call her anymore,there's other women out there.
2006-07-06 22:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by fufa1972 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your still in school so write her a letter. If not in school find some other way too get it too her. Have you tried to talk to her sister? Maybe she would understand more if you explained then you could have someone on your side. You have to get your side of the story out there or your screwed
2006-07-06 22:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and calm down... do not over do stuff that makes you look like you are trying too hard to protect your image or defend your innocence. Remember that when you righteous, you are seldom jumpy and nervous.
if this it pulls through you guys would probably be laughing about this story before you know it.
I hope the best for you my friend.... misunderstandings such as these happens to the best of us...
if it doesn't pull through, let it go, do not let this incident affect you too much.... its just a minor mistake. EVERYONE makes mistakes... including you.. so be forgiving you yourself.
Again, i hope the best and God bless.
2006-07-06 22:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by ryan_manchester 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to call proflowers @ 1-800-proflowers or go to www.proflowers.com and order the best bunch of flowers you can and attatch note to explain what happened...You may try to send them to the mother, sister and girlfriend. Don't be surprised if they don't respond, the parents are just trying to protect their girls (fathers are much more protective of their daughters) If they don't respond or give you the time of day, move on and don't go kissing girls in the dark.
2006-07-06 22:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by EmmaGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋