2006-07-06 14:57:43 · 21 answers · asked by ryle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you really believe that you need to ask yourself first, why dont you believe it? There might something that you're still looking for between the two of you that is missing and wanting that to happen to confirm an actual bond between you two. I know that sometimes when I get to feeling like that its just my jealousy getting the best of me because my others spent alot of time with friends of the opposite sex, and for some reason it made me feel like maybe they werent interested in me anymore. Half of the time I was right but for 2/3 of my significant others, I was wrong. It was just me getting ahead of myself. So my advice to you, is to take a good look at your current status with your boyfriend, and look at what you want out of it. It might anwswer your question. I dont know if I helped or not, but take my words into consiteration. Latrz
2006-07-06 15:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by GlennSueznin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of two things either u just don't like him that much and for that reason don't feel the same feelings he does, which just means u need to move on. or he has given u a reason to not trust him, either he cheated on u or is a guy that flirts alot reason why u mistrust him. either way I always believe that u need to trust ur instincts because that "gut feeling" always seems to be right. Analyze ur relationship and think whether u really want to continue with it or just move on. Good Luck : )
2006-07-06 22:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u say he's ready to be serious do u mean get some nooky.? cause that whatit sound like and if so then that would explain why u can't feel or believe what he is saying. stick with that feeling.
2006-07-06 22:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by montecarlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then he's not the right guy for you...
He might be talking his way into sex with you... or telling you what he thinks you want to hear...
Whatever the reason - stay true to your heart. If it isn't feeling right then you might want to see someone else or at least take a break from eachother.
2006-07-06 22:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by rabble rouser 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont feel it your probably right. let me see your a teen and you bf is telling you all the right things you want to hear. if he is serious and you are strong enough for his answer. tell him your keeping yourself pure for marriage with him. see if he says anything weird i bet he doesnt love you because if he didi he will wait. anyways you should be hitting the books in school and not boys.
2006-07-06 22:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by Walther L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts about him and trust the little man inside you more than you trust someone elses words...that instinct kept us alive 5000 yrs ago and itll help u now too.
2006-07-06 22:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mehrunes Dagon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you sense his calling you special is only insincere flattery to satisfy his own selfish desires by having you do what is not in your best interest. Love wants what is best for you. Wait for it.
2006-07-06 22:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by choo-Choos Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if he wasn't there. Think about it. Maybe you are taking him for granted. If you wouldn't miss him then maybe it is time to move on.
2006-07-06 22:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. He is probably just saying that to get something that he wants.
2006-07-06 22:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that must mean he wants to have sex with you???? Go with your gut feeling, if you dont wanna do it, theres a reason! Always pay attention to that little voice, thats what God gave it to you for....
2006-07-06 22:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋