I was datin this boy for 2 years....I loved him and still do with all my heart..when im around him im HAPPY....most times...my parents want let me see him bc they dont like him....WE have spent ALMOST 2 years...every moment with each other..I am not sure wat to do... im datin another guy and he nos about him and i feel weird bc i see both of them all the time..n...i saw them today....what do i do??How do u no if hes really for me ( the love that ive been with for 2 years)??
2006-07-06 14:57:18 · 14 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you realy loved the first guy you would not be dating the second!!!!
2006-07-06 15:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by nclonewolf1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question, then he's not Mr. Right. When you meet Mr. Right, you'll know because there won't be any doubts or questions as to if he is Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong.
You're also dating another guy, so you must not like something about your guy if you are sharing your time with another man and you're instincts are trying to tell you that he's not Mr. Right.
I hate to say it, but you're parents are probably right. You may not always agree with what they say, but with their age, experience has also come. Remember they were young once and went through different relationships and have learned a few things from those previous relationships. They're just trying to save you from some heartache or from making some of the mistakes they have made (and probably won't admit to until you're a little bit older).
2006-07-06 22:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I would suggest you take a step back and look at your situation logically. Get a piece of paper and write down the things about him that you don't like. Then, make another list of the things that you want in a man (every girl has one of these that's ten miles long) and pick the most important ones and see if he matches those. If he doesn't, and the other list has any serious things on it (such as drugs, or any kind of abuse), then that should tell you something.
2006-07-06 22:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Justin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is how old are you? If you're still young enough to be under your parents control I think you need to give it a while before you decide if he is Mr. Right or not. If you aren't that young then I'll say being with someone for two years says a lot to me, and if you feel that much for him then why in the hell are you dating someone else and letting your parents input keep you away from him.
2006-07-06 22:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you just showed...is proof enough that he may just be Mr. Right...its all about the butterflies...it reminds me of my current relationship...we were high school sweethearts...then i'd see her at later dates..and as soon as I seen her my heart would race...and I couldn't help but think of the times we shared together...and now...well we're engaged...and I couldn't be happier. You need to follow your heart...it whispers so you have to listen close...
2006-07-06 22:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into marriage till ur 28-30. Enjoy your youth and search for your soul mate.
2006-07-06 22:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by bigmonky2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes the one, you wouldnt be seeing this other guy. you woudnt feel anything for anyone else because hed be the only one in your heart.
2006-07-06 22:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by AG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who make you happy and how do you feel around him and why do you have 2 men is there something that one does not give you
2006-07-06 22:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by jamie p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone needs to grow up!
2006-07-06 22:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by ouwx104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur parents cant tell u who to love, if nothing else worx just try to keep it a secret...also try talking to your parents and maybe theyll tell u y and u may c it or u may not(at which u cood try to prove otherwise)
2006-07-06 22:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by Mehrunes Dagon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋