2006-07-06 14:36:06 · 27 answers · asked by lukeduke383 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
LOL --- WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF SUMONE SLEEPS WITH YOUR WIFE AND SAYS HOW SORRY HE FEELS AFTER ENJOYING WITH YOUR WIFE!!
EXPECT THE SAME
2006-07-06 14:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rick O Connell 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
How about staying away from his wife. That would probaly be the best course of action. As for making it up to him, your screwed. There is no man who is going to forgive you for sleeping with his wife. Did you know she was married when you got into bed, bc if you did then why would you apologize to the man just bc you got caught? Had you not been caught then you wouldn't feel any regret about the situation, and you would probaly be back in it the next chance you got...correct? Leave the man alone, along with his wife.
2006-07-13 08:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been the husband in this type of situation before, I suggest that you leave the country before he thinks about it too much. Take the woman with you. That's the best thing for this, trust me. You might even manage to make a new life somewhere. Being sorry won't 'fix' what happened, and it isn't just you that has hurt him. He might even say he wants to forgive her, but eventually, she'll do it again.
2006-07-06 14:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are still referring to her as "my girlfriend" tells me that you are not sorry you were in bed with her. You are sorry you got caught.
The only way you can SHOW him you are sorry is to ASK HIM what you can do. He is the one you have offended. It is his trust you need to win back.
Was this man your friend? If so, what kind of friend are you? What kind of woman cheats on her husband? If she would cheat on him, with you, what's to keep her from cheating on you, with someone else?
2006-07-06 14:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by bakequery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to just write her off and avoid him at all costs! Sorry or not, he doesn't give a $h1t! If he wants to hear from you, he will come looking for you! If she's worth it to you, you will let her hash things out. She will contact you if it's over with him and you can go from there. If you don't hear from her, rest assured she's made her choice and you aren't in the equation. I know love is blind, but next time I would recommend better screening your "dates" before getting involved! I just hope for their sake there were no children involved!
2006-07-06 15:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her.
Normally, I think apologies are good, but in this situation I don't know if there's any way an apology could make it any better. If you do apologize, you should apologize to both of them for getting in the way of their marriage.
If she calls you or something, tell her that you won't see her anymore.
Never contact either of them again.
Don't sleep with married women.
In fact, don't sleep with any woman you aren't married to.
2006-07-06 17:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him and her. If you are truly sorry, respect their marriage. Contact with him could prove to be hazardous to your health. This affair may have been exciting and adventurous, but infidelity is very hurtful. No good can come from it. You may want to repent to your higher power as well.
2006-07-11 09:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him smash you in the face with a baseball bat, and then break both you legs, and hopefully you two can then be the best of freinds, and you can all have a threesome in bed together.
2006-07-07 20:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't sorry . . you are probably feel relief you were caught . . stay away from married people . . there are enough single people around ......... and if I were the husband and you tried apologizing to me . . well . . I wouldn't be held responsible for my actions
2006-07-06 14:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by wfgrg15001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only sorry that you got caught not that you actually slept with her. Keep your mouth shut.
2006-07-07 06:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by onefootnaked 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of their way. They have to figure out their marriage, so leave them to it. If you still feel guilty later on, this may seem stupid but write him a letter apologising, if you call him he'll probably just hang up (I would) and if you go to him in person he could beat the hell outta you (I would).
2006-07-06 15:15:00 · answer #11 · answered by Red. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋