2006-07-06 14:31:10 · 9 answers · asked by genah18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't. The loss will always be with you. You just have to accept it and move on. I lost my grandparents (they were murdered), I lost my inheritance to greedy people (didn't have the money to hire a lawyer) and I lost my self-respect and drank heavily. Now, I survived...I'm back on my feet, I'm living. But the sadness will always remain. I just don't let it affect me. Good luck kid.
2006-07-06 14:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to remember all of the good times. Go out with friends and try to have fun. Never allow yourself to be alone when you feel really bad. Talk to somebody about what you're going through, many times talking helps a lot when a person is grieving.
2006-07-06 21:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by dogluver8906 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thankfully, not many people can answer that from experience. I really feel for you. From my experience grieving (but never from something as horrible as this): You definitely have to let yourself grieve. After you've gone through enough of that, focus on something outside of yourself. Try caring for another person or an animal - maybe rescue animals. I know that it will be difficult. Good luck.
2006-07-06 23:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by pollux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how bad it gets, someone else has it worse......you need to be happy that you have your health, the birds singing, the smell of fresh cut grass, bright warm sunshine, and your whole life ahead of you. Lots of people don't even have these. You can! Wake up each day and try something different.
2006-07-06 21:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by -* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends how attached u were with them
if they were Ur life then i will say it might take 4ever and a day
it is a choice believe it or not you must just fill the hole left in you.
but yes people have a tendency to look back if they are alone...
2006-07-06 21:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll i put up with it for 22 yrs going on 23. I have 2 botheres and a sister i never meet. They live in Barbados my father was going to take me to see them but he died and I never got that changes. I live in the us and they live in a hole different country. His last name was Hays. So if there's any one out there that know this family don't be afraid to leave me a message. at fruittey@yahoo.com. thanks and god bless.
2006-07-06 21:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by Fruittie Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me it was a rough few months but in the end you know that they're in a better place.
2006-07-06 21:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by mathura529@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think about them and move on. i know it is hardbut you have to thin kabout what would they want you to do. they would want you to keep their name alive and move on and be happy. you cant do that sobbing and mooping around, you know them better than anyone else. do if for them, move on and focus on you.take care and see if you can talk to a concncelor or someone. good luck.
2006-07-06 21:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you lose them? Death?
2006-07-06 21:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by kctruckdeals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋