2006-07-06 14:23:15 · 7 answers · asked by justagirl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Yeah, we have three. I want one more and my husband says no. He thinks that three is enough and looks at it financially. My heart, body, and mind say I want one more! I am still working on him about it, but I don't see him giving in. Good luck:)
2006-07-06 16:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had a similar situation about 10-11 years ago, we had 2 boys and I definately didn't want another child, somehow , the wife ended up pregnant, so when she had the child, we had her fixed at the same time, but I don't regret the last one at all, he is the best kid, a real joy, if he had of been born first , I doubt there would have been more, don't get me wrong, the other 2 are great , but the last one is a charmer and one of the coolest kids I have ever seen. in other words, you can't really judge how the unborn one will be by comparing to any previous ones. if you do have another one, he/she may steal your heart and you will say, what if I hadn't of.
2006-07-06 14:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are. If this is your first child then it should be fine and your husband shouldn't say no. If this is your second or third then your husband is right, having lots of babies only bring pressure to you and your hubby cause it can speed up your daily expenses. Maybe if you have a wealthy partner that's another story.
2006-07-06 14:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by andyraba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one and want one more. My husband gets raving mad every time I mention it. And I mean mad. We can afford more so that isn't the issue. I do everything. He hasn't once changed a diaper or got up in the night. So I don't know what his deal is. Hopefully your man will at least talk to you about it. Good luck. As far as pretending your on birth control then getting pregnant I don't agree with. Love is trust.
2006-07-07 01:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by ms know it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hav same probs with u, and i got only one son.
But now i take in positive way ..... if he wont ther is the strong reason behind that.And so wht the use create another baby if the world getting crazy and more crazy ..... we should think as a parents, is not easy to educated the new generation, to much risk for that. So dnt add ur problems life, enjoy our life, and think more for their future ..... dnt jst produce and they r the one will suffer in the future.
2006-07-06 14:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all try to have a serious talk with him about it and lay out your feelings of why you want another baby, but if that does not work I would suggest you to PRETEND to have protected sex, ( like the pills or whatever) so he can feel safe cumming in you, and once you are pregnant "by accident" (in his eyes) he wont have any other option than to go along with it. good luck and God bless!
2006-07-06 14:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure listen to him. If you push the issue it will only cause stress and the creation of an unwanted child.
2006-07-09 18:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋