The reception hall doesn't include anything but tables and chairs so I have buy everything else. I would like my bridal party to have regular plates and glasses that are nice and my guests will have paper plates and cups for the buffet. Everyone says that tacky!
2006-07-06 14:22:13 · 18 answers · asked by diameniq23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Thanks everybody for your opinions. Hearing perfect strangers calling it tacky must mean it's tacky, so we are going with someone's advice to buy out the dollar store. Renting dishes are expensive here and they make you clean up yourself. My family is cooking, so no caterers. Thanks all!!!!!
2006-07-07 13:24:14 · update #1
I don't think it's tacky i would. Heck, I had paper plates for myself also. If money is a issue then do it. If they dont like it than they can leave or bring there own plates and cups. you could rent them if you want or if you use a cater then they can supply the dishes. I dont mind but if your family is snobs then they will think its tacky though. either way have a money donation tree and a dollar dance to help with expenses. maybe send a letter with invitions that if they want real plates and stuff bring there own or they will be given paper ones. maybe you can get the design plates that paper. it's your wedding you do as you please and who cares.
2006-07-06 14:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
While I could understand the appeal of your idea in terms of saving money and clean up effort, I would have to agree with those who say it would be tacky. You run the risk of having your wedding guests feeling disrespected.
There are places out there where you can rent real plates, glasses and cutlery for reasonable prices. There would be no need for you to spend money on china for your bridal party. Some places will deliver to and from the reception hall.
On the other hand, if your budget does not allow for rented china, then you gotta do what you gotta do.
2006-07-06 14:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by anitat02155 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our caterer provided all the plates and silverware and such.
You don't say who's catering. That could also make a difference. If you're serving like, Subway, (we considered doing this...dude with the checkbook, aka my dad, overruled) Fried Chicken, or something in that caliber of food, paper plates are more than appropriate.
If you're trying to save money, you're probably not going to have what I call "fru-fru food." That is the one thing I didn't want at my wedding, although I didn't get much of a chance to eat during my reception. Might be ok!
2006-07-06 15:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, yes! that is totally tacky!!!!!!! It would make the guest feel that they are not good enough for the regular plates and glasses. Remember, they are going out of their way to buy a gift for you, and also taking the time to attend your wedding. Without your guests, you would not have a reception!!! Proper ediquette says your guests should feel welcomed and appreciated. Try to rent the plates and glasses. They do rent these out. Look in your local phone directory. Good luck!
2006-07-06 17:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Geneva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paper plates and cups are tacky enough on their own - don't make it worse by letting your wedding party use china, while everyone else becomes a "second-class citizen"!
If I were you, I would rent tableware, silverware, and napkins. If there are budget constraints, as there are for most of us, I would rent it at the expense of cutting something else (like favors, chair covers) or making something else simpler (flowers, cupcakes instead of wedding cake, etc).
If you absolutely must use paper plates, your wedding party must use them as well.
2006-07-07 00:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by july2007bride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OM Gosh, Hun, I understand you wanna save money, I don't blame you, but YES that's very tacky!
I have an idea to maybe help, if there are any .99 cent stores around, go there and buy them out if need be. We have one around here and there dish's are nice, nice enough to help you out for one night, and if you don't want to keep them, donate them to the reception hall. Or if you do, great. Just keep it a secret where you got the plates, no one needs to know :)
Good Luck
2006-07-06 19:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by lvn_jb06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be impolite for the bridal party to dine on china plates while everyone else had to use "regular" paper plates. You could purchase very pretty paper wedding plates and cups for everyone and special champagne glasses for the bride and groom. I understand you are trying to keep the costs down, but you want everyone to feel welcome and included in your special day. I pray you and your groom will have a long and happy life together. God bless you both!
2006-07-06 14:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some very nice clear plastic plates on the market now so check into those. Full size and at first glance everyone will think they are glass.
But please have everyone's the same or you will run the risk of ostrasizing your friends and family. You want to be the toast of the town NOT the talk of the town.
2006-07-07 03:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally tacky! Just get nice plastic plates for everyone, your bridal party won't care!
2006-07-06 14:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very tacky. I would ask around your area to find a place to rent out dishes and anything else you need. You can also rent tables/chairs/linens/table cloths/ ect.
2006-07-06 14:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋