im 32 years old and been single forever, but im extremely shy around women, am i being too optimistic to expect a woman to approach me?
2006-07-06 14:11:31 · 28 answers · asked by handsomefunnyguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont make her do all the work. nothing is worse then that.
2006-07-06 14:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, women do not expect men to make the first move, but you would have to show enough interest to allow the object of your desire to know that you are in agreement and would like to enjoy her company. You could always ask her to give you a call sometime and express that you have enjoyed the conversation and take things from there. I think dating is an equal opportunity thing that both sexes should feel free to participate in!
2006-07-06 21:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lady438 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some woman are forward and do make a first move. But I myself like the man to take the initiative. Don't be shy. Maybe someone is waiting for you to approach her.
2006-07-06 21:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a man, walk up to a woman and start a conversation. That's how it works. Being shy is something you can overcome. You're just afraid of rejection, so you avoid the situation altogether. Why do you think you've been single for so long? Stop acting like a shy little boy and show a little confidence in yourself. It will work wonders!
2006-07-06 21:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, men don't always make the first move. There are some very strong minded women at there that take the initiative and will make the first move. Plus sometimes we can tll that men are too shy and we'll just do it to ease their nerves.
2006-07-06 21:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how women feel about this in general, but since I'm extremely shy around men, I usually prefer if men make the first move.
2006-07-06 21:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by hpotter4ever2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A gentleman should always make the first move. A girl will give you signals when it is okay to make a move. If she doesn't or you just aren't sure, just ask her, "is it okay if I kiss you", what will that hurt? All she can say is yes, no or kiss you first. Then take it from there. You're a big boy, you can read body language if it's going well. Nana
2006-07-06 21:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yes women are still expecting men to make the first move but there are a few that will make the first move themselves
2006-07-06 21:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by esile619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women like to make the first move, but if you don't make the first move she might be too shy also.
2006-07-06 21:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jillypooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys need to make the first for the girls that cant. If a chick asked you out then go for it cause she has guys otherwise girls are really shy and wont do anything!!
2006-07-06 21:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ohio Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to come out of your shell and be more self confdent. start by going to a club or bar with a few of your best buds then practice aproching wemon by asking them if there haveing a great time what there name is saying they look hot asking them if they go their often just start a conversation with them and yes it is up to the guy to make the first move. the key is feeling confident.
2006-07-06 21:20:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋