Why do women choose not to go out with the "Nice Guy"?

Answer 1

You know, I only like dating nice guys. Trouble is, it's really easy for a jerk to pretend to be a nice guy. Makes me a little leery.

Answer 2

Because they are boring. Women talk about how they want a "nice guy", when in reality they want jerks. Why do they want jerks? For several reasons.

First, jerks are more likely to ask a girl out than the typical nice guy. Nice guys are more interested in being friends than being lovers. Nice guys ultimately end up being the gay best-friend.

Second, jerks are a challenge for women. Women like make-overs. Have you noticed all of the make-over shows on TV? Those are for women. Women think that they can "fix" a jerk, when in reality, they can't. Nobody can. You can't change other people. You can only change yourself.

Third, it's because women don't know what they want. The feminist era women screwed women up (and men). They told women that they should be a certain way and only want certain kinds of men. Then, they told men that they were wrong for thinking and doing certain things, such as thinking of women as sex objects, and being politically incorrect. So, what you ended up with was women with unrealistic expectations of men, and men who didn't know how to be the kind of men that women are attracted to. So, the women are out there reading fairy-tales and watching make-over shows thinking that they can find men like that, and men are listening to feminist era messages about how they should be and have forgotten how to be confident, unapologetic men.

Finally, women are generally uncapable of logical thought when it comes to personal relationships. How many women do you know that talk about the jerks they have dated. Well, women, who chose those jerks? You did! That's right. You chose them. Then, when you let him treat you like dirt for so long, you finally got the courage to leave. What did you do after that? You went out and found another jerk, all while telling your nice guy friend about the jerks that you're dating. Why are you telling him? Because of the above mentioned points. You aren't capable of looking at yourself and your decision making skills and saying that you need to change yourself and your expectations to match what it is that you want. You aren't willing to be with the "boring"guy, or the goofy looking guy, or the guy from the IT department. They aren't hip enough, or suave enough. And you certainly aren't willing to date someone who doesn't have the confidence to ask you out. Why would you ever do that?

The above mentioned points are just a few of the main reasons (in brief) women choose jerks instead of nice guys. For more help with picking up chicks, feel free to email me at [e-mail]. Have a nice day.

Answer 3

Because most women like drama. Most nice guys have their lives in order and have little of that. Also "nice guy" usually means he's a push-over and women like a guy that will stand up to them, and not change just to make them happy (gives off that real clingy/needy vibe)

Answer 4

sometimes the nice guy is what we may not want but exactly what we need...but for some reason we just love that mean streak some men give and it is a major plus when you arent too serious but soon in the relationship..if things start getting serious...then that is what we need...the nice guy must come out sometime!

Answer 5

Maybe sometimes going out with somekinda nice guy makes our whole day boring....They say that dating is knowing each other but for me,I will prefer going out with a simple typical guy and then soon realize and experience his natural gentleness..More exciting...

Answer 6

They wait for marriage to go out with the "nice guy"
and go out with the "bad boys ' for the fun.

Answer 7

Maybe there's something else that puts them off. I love "nice guys".

Answer 8

because we choose not to, dont question the female mind, you will only recieve answers beyond your male comprehension, normal guys see translation below

(in male- we just do, dont ask why, if you do ask you will be confused)