My sister is married and now her focus is on me and trying to find me a man, I know she means well but I dont want her help and besides she is married she should not be looking at other guys, she points cute guys out to me. How can I get her to stop?
2006-07-06 14:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by moosenose1981 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurl, my sister is tha same way!!! she got a man now she feels its my turn!! i had to explain to her that I know what i want!! tell her that you dont need to be in a relationship to be happy!! but take my advice to, dont be a hoe!!! only you know what is best for you, so take your time and remember that there is bigger fish in tha sea! dont let her choose for you!!!
2006-07-06 14:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with calmly and respectfully telling your sister that you can find your own man. If she counters with the old why don't you then tell her that when the right one comes along she will be the 3rd to know. Explain to her that you are very happy with the way your life is and don't NEED a man to complete you or define who you are. It sounds to me like she might be a little jealous of you being single.... maybe not. But she should stop meddling in your private life. Good luck. Nana
2006-07-06 21:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her there is more to life than being with someone and also remember we find happiness when we stop looking for it and we let it find us. Good Luck!
2006-07-06 21:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by brandi91980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you're happy to be single.
she just wants you to be happy too, and unfortunately many people assume that you must be in a relationship for that to happen.
as for her pointing our cute guys, there is nothing wrong with that. Just because she's married doesn't mean she's dead.
2006-07-06 21:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop and mind her own business. She means well but it's not appropriate an you don't feel comfortable with that.
2006-07-06 21:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her they look fabulous, but your girlfriend would get jealous.
Once her jaw returns from the pavement, remind her to mind her own business, and you'll take care of yours.
2006-07-06 21:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by snoweagleltd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the reasons that you're content handling the "situation" as she sees it on your own. You'd be surprised that she might even apreciated your independence and look up to you.
2006-07-07 23:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by GBR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty
just tell her when you are ready you will find a man that is rite fore you and you really dont want her help and leave it at that
2006-07-06 21:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by giantdwarfbat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop. If she doesn't, stop spending time with her until she does.
2006-07-06 21:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. thats the only way. or find a bf to yourself so she'll stop
2006-07-06 21:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋