i recently became really good friends with my boss and we've had some sexual tension going on. it's against store policy for employees to date or involve themselves in a sexual relationship. i asked him if he thought i was attractive and he just kept dodging the question. if he dodges the question like this does it mean he doesn't think i'm attractive or is he just covering his bases before he jumps any further with anything. i haven't a freaking clue!
2006-07-06 14:00:09 · 7 answers · asked by GIRLpassionate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, GirlPassionate... Here are some clues that you may want to consider.
1) Ask yourself the same question and then ask yourself "What do I care if a member of the opposite sex doesn't like my looks"?
2) If you are setting others up and attempting to bait them into giving you compliments... then honey, read some self help books. Beauty starts inside the head along with confidence about who you are and your self esteem.
Once a person believes in themselves and does NOT need validation from another person to qualify their (personal) reasons for spending hours in front of the mirror and at the gym and starving themselves at meals justifying their reasons by.... well, the why has many faces. Once you start doing things for YOURSELF and not someone else and thinking possitive, then you will attract the right person to you.
3) When you think, live, act and behave in a healthy way. You will start to attract the person you ultimatly need in your life.
4)One more thing, Why would you be look for this man's compliments anyway? What is your intention and can you live with a clear mind if you get what you (between the lines) desire through the means you are using?
Once again. Be honest with yourself and beliieve in your own self worth and good things will happen to you.
Hugs to you,
Jeff
2006-07-06 14:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's being cautious to a fault. He knows the hidden dangers with an office romance. Could be he's very afraid of his spouse/girlfriend finding out and losing her, and his family. Most men are afraid of impulsive and agressive women. They usually have a hidden agenda, at least that's what men think of first. If he keeps dodging the question, take that as a sign to leave well enough alone. Don't you think if a man wanted to get into a girl's pants he would be trying all sorts of tricks, including telling a her she is pretty, when she really isn't. If you are as attractive as you say, another man will pick up on that and then you won't be able to get rid of him. Be cool, play it slow, if he is interested, he'll come around.
2006-07-06 14:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by the sealer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could mean that he doesn't care enough about you to tell you that you are attractive. Remember, he is just another guy. Besides, it is not wise to have a relationship with your boss; when he grows tired of you, you will be gone and so will your job. It is not worth it.
2006-07-06 14:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by barbie_babe_cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he likes his job too much to lose it. He might also be afraid of answering that question and being hit with sexual harassment.
2006-07-06 14:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Just a guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other guys. Sexual harassment is a biggy, and he probably didn't want to answer. Smart man!!!!!!
2006-07-06 14:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like it never happend-or get agresive and look in his eyes and ask him!!!force it out of him gurl!!!you can do it!!!
2006-07-06 14:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I simply would not ask him again.
2006-07-06 14:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋