2006-07-06 13:48:30 · 17 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It takes generations of family history to built the proper hellish dysfunctional structure. Once built it seems to reproduce itself until the family is finally destroyed.
Read Eric Berne's "What Do You Say After You Say Hello" and Claude Steiner's "Scripts People Life" and you'll see how clever and how deep this pattern really is.
2006-07-06 13:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put it in a nutshell: you come from a disfunctional family you will be disfunctional, you are comfy around disfunctional mates, so you will pick someone disfunctional and create a new disfunctional family
2006-07-06 20:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeese, if we had the answer for that one, no one would be disfunctional anymore
i do know studies show that it is passed from generation to generation until someone breaks the cycle
someone came from a disfunctional family in the beginning somewhere and just keeps passin it on i guess
gl finding an answer to this one, should be interesting
2006-07-06 20:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in a disfunctional family.They don't ever become a disfunctional family.They've just been that way for a while and haven't noticed it till recently.
2006-07-06 20:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dis functional family's take generations.. Mine started with my great grandfather,He was in total control of everyone in his family. His son( my grandfather) was the same. My father was also in control. He would beat us children when ever something did not go his way. I broke the mold when i got married. I never abused my children because I hated it when my father lost his temper. My father broke 7 bones in my body until I became 17 & left home.
2006-07-06 21:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by BUTCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some of the people in those families have serious emotional problems and/or deny trying to get along with others.
2006-07-06 20:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with previous up bringing and lack of support. Dysfunctional families can be reversed.. it would just take alot of love and effort from all members.
2006-07-06 20:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by justme88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aren't we all a little disfunctional in our own little way
2006-07-06 20:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by nemraC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generation curses
2006-07-06 20:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people who weren't meant to become parents are.
2006-07-06 20:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Pumpkin_Ruka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋