Have you ever fell madly in love or whatever it is with someone that was totally wrong for you? Psycho, Druggie, you know what I mean. Just totally opposite of what you wanted but still went crazy over them. Felt they were the one.
2006-07-06 13:45:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure have. We don't love em because they are doing something we don't like, we love em for what we see in em. Nevertheless, it is better to leave em or you will end up with a huge heartache and an empty wallet....
2006-07-06 13:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They say opposites attract, and they do. I fell for a guy who was an alcoholic, I don't drink buy on occasions, he hid his alcoholism very well until after I married him and then got a full face of what he was really all about. By the time I got out of the marriage I was in debt to the tune of $75,000. I ended up in bankruptcy court over him as well. It was a very expensive lesson to learn. So my advice, if you care is, Don't Do It....play and have fun but don't make the same mistake. They only pull you down instead of you pulling them up.....Nana
2006-07-06 20:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey - I answered your question about the girl you're talking about. You just have to decide if you're in love with the girl, or in love with her because she's totally wrong for you. After all, all of us are after the "chase" on some aspect.
And yeah, I know what you mean. I had a boyfriend who I went out with, and I really thought something could work, but he ended up being abusive. You just have to realize that the hell she's putting you through is a type of abuse. I mean, guys complain to me all the time about how women stay with asshole guys who beat them up. Well those women are madly in love with their men. So either you have to put up with it and allow yourself to be abused or you have to say that the one for you would never hurt you, physically or emotionally. Maybe it's okay to allow yourself to break your own heart if you say goodbye and save yourself a world of trouble and heartache later on. And if she really is the one, then she'll realize she needs to fix her life - Hell, for all you know, maybe you leaving will give her a major wake up call. Because from what I can tell, you're of pretty sound mind and seem to be a nice guy with a good head on your shoulders, and if she can't stop hurting herself and those around you, then you don't need her - and she as Hell don't deserve you.
2006-07-06 20:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but i was in high school and hadn't quite matured yet. It was my Jr and Sr yr in high school and this guy was working at McDonalds, so was I, he was my manager. I was 17 he was 23..i think. Well for my Jr. prom we had made a date to go together, a week b4 he cancels and goes with the school slut instead..he gets her pregnant and.....i take him back....stupid yes!!! We were together through my senior yr. we weren't a happy couple, there was a lot of cheating on his part...but i alway took him back! WHY!!!!?? i don't know.i moved away after graduating...thank god! I don't know what happened to him nor do i really care. it was a good lesson to learn in life tho!
2006-07-06 20:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by buttercup83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I know im prob gona get alot of terrible comments about what im gona write but owell ...
My fiance and I have been together for 6 years.. and we got together he was the town bad boy.. barred from just about every bar.. nickname pycho sid.. .We did have some small jealousy issues but worked through them.. I guess you have to decide if you really love that person. If you do youll work through your issues. I can say my story worked out good he hasnt been in any kind of trouble for 5 years.. Youd never know how bad he was if you met him now..
2006-07-06 20:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by its_cinful2828 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, got involved with a chronic womanizer. But then, when I got to know that he's like that, I went against my feelings and moved on. It's been years since that time I made a decision to let my head rule over my heart and I'm absolutely okay now. :)
2006-07-06 20:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Luzzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have once. I think it was all about the "bad boy image" thing, I was just always turned on when he was near. But I think that is falling in LUST not love. I don`t think I could even fall in love with someone that is a Drug User or otherwise handy capped.
2006-07-06 20:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and still trying to get over it that is a bad route to go down but everyine has to go down that route at least one time so don't feel bad
2006-07-06 20:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, one time, we used to date, we were at school still and all for me was wonderful untill we left to college and never call me again.
2006-07-06 20:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by IRIS G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually dump them when I find out they're crazy.... I won't put up with it. Too many good ones out there.
2006-07-06 20:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋