My boyfriend just told one of his friends that is a girl on myspace "happy birthday beautiful.. myspace didn't even tell me and i remembered"... I got jealous.. i hate being this way.. is that just over-reacting.. or should i be worried? i have no clue... I mean, i don't like being one of those annoying girlfriends who always have to be up on their guy's business.. but I don't know why. This just kinda hurt me..
2006-07-06 13:35:26 · 21 answers · asked by uhhsure8701 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like hes a little too close with this girl, in a flirtatious way, and Id listen to my little voice inside....
2006-07-06 13:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not "paranoid" just not as secure with yourself as you should be. Relax! We can only control ourselves (usually). If your boyfriend likes you, he likes you. You are you! If you waste time worrying, you will not have fun. Time is short! Don't try to second guess anothers feelings. Give him some credit, too. There isn't a popularity contest. Do you suppose he worries about other guys? Even if you two were married, there are many "right" combinations of people, some work and some don't. Some people date many people. The key to life is "be happy".
2006-07-06 20:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Emily M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to feel a little jealous, but when you start obsessing about it then you're the one with the issue. Have you always felt like this with all the guys you dated? Or has your current guy done or said something that made you raise a red flag? Step back and look at the big picture.
2006-07-06 20:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by cinnamon_latin_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think your just jealous. You have to remember that he is human and that it is only normal for him to think that other women are beautiful, that doesnt mean that he is trying to get with her. Are there other men that you think are good looking and if so if you thought they were is there ever a time when you would say something like hello handsome? Remember just because he may think that she is beautful does not mean that he doesnt think that you are as well.
2006-07-06 20:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe it is just a friend that he cares a little about and wanted to make her feel a lil special. Don't be worried, if there aren't any other signs there like cheating than just let it pass.
2006-07-06 20:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he called another girl "beautiful" besides you, I would think you have a bit of reason to be angry. Just bring it up to him, tell him that he hurt you and that you aren't very comfortable with him talking to other girls like that. That, in my opinion, is WAY passed flirting. And if he responds in a rude way, or won't respect your feelings and wishes, ditch him, he's a JERK-OFF.
2006-07-06 20:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lorenia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's trying too dip out on the side. Its alright to be nice to people, but emailing and leaving message behind your back is sneaky. Men have 2 heads and one brain, remeber that.
Id check his cell phone for previous calls he's made also.
2006-07-06 20:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he shouldn't be telling another girl that she's beautiful. I think you have a right to be jealous, that's a very good reason....somethings wierd with that.
2006-07-06 20:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's seem it that situation me and you have alot in common.I been doing that with my boyfriends for the past 4-5 years we are still together.He gets tired of it but I explain to him why I act the way I act and he understand.Tell him to put himself in your situation how would he feel......um the same way
2006-07-06 20:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be hurt or jealous remember all those girls on there can be made over and its not really them at all ~~
2006-07-06 20:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by Kristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋