im angry at how my life turned out. what should i do to get over this feeling.?

Answer 1

ppl say ' its ur life, u can do whatever u want' .............well, sometimes u cant. mines like that.stuck in life , that if i think 2 much about it, it makes me cry. but u know what?? im still happy. i look around at my life 2 try 2 find the good suff, and i find it. i hve a home, a husband[lol] a great daughter & grandaughter. i help other ppl as often as i can. makes them happy, makes u happy. dont focus on the negative, try 2 replace those thoughts with a song that u like. and last, but def. not least. theres GOD 2 HELP U THRU. even if u dont think hes there, he is. start by talking out ur problems w/him. get mad at himscearm at him, if thats what it takes.HE wont turn his back on u. i swear. good luck, and dont do any thing 2 hurt urself.

Answer 2

focus your energy on buliding a better future

don't over focus on the past or present, put all your energy into making tomorrow better.

make a dream book, a journal where you document what you want in life and outline your goals (both large and small). Then write about your progress as you get closer to reaching your goals. In your journal you can cut out magazine pictures of everything from your "dream home" to how long you want your hair to grow. Whatever your hopes and dreams are, play with them in your head and visualize them happening. Work toward your bigger goals. Try to achieve some of the smaller goals now. It might be easier to take that trip to the grand canyon you always wanted to take right now...but it might take years to get that new house. Make some goals small and achievable so you can reach them sooner.

Answer 3

First off i too am upset with the way my life turned out so far. Just look at the positive things in your life and not the negative.

Answer 4

Only you and God can control your life and destiny. Should you find that you are not happy with your outcome then my suggestion would be to pray and ask that you're steered in the right direction. I think we all wonder from the road we'd like to travel but the only way to get back onto it is to do a Uturn and head for the sunset. Ultimately you will find your happiness if you just work toward it. Begin today..................Right NOW!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Realize that only you hold the ability to change your life.

Your actions to date have gotten you to where you are. Change those actions to get you to where you want to be.

Just remember everything is baby steps, it does not happen over night.

I have a can holder that reads " This is not the life I ordered."

I am currently already changing items due to where I ended up. You can do it too.

Answer 6

Unless you are 50 or 60 years old, change your life's direction. Our lives don't "turn out."...They are the total compilation of our experiences and choices. You cannot control what will happen to you. But, you totally control how you react to it. Remember, ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING!

Answer 7

if you are not dead yet it ain't over start working on changing the things you don't like about your life. work with what you have at the time and make many small changes that in time will make big changes.

Answer 8

this is what you do get drunk look at your sell in the mirror hold you head up high and say this is what it is this is what it feels like to hell with it go back to drinking and pass out and got to sleep you'll feel a little better but better to live then be dead

Answer 9

turn over a new leaf[lol]...seriously though,just chalk it up to one of life's learning lessons and make your future better than what your past was.you know the old saying...there's always someone worse off than you.personally, i've been there...done it all...but have never given up trying to do better....and NO...it's NOT EASY!!!good luck my friend

Answer 10

learn to deal with your own mistakes and then think about the first thing you need to do to make your life more happier. set a goal and stick to it. This is from personal expierence.