Why is it okay for a man to sleep with how ever and not be a h o e but when a woman dose it we are h o e s?

Answer 1

Quite simple really. A young man is more 'anxious' than a young woman. His early goal in life is to make it as often as possible so he goes out and seeks it whenever or wherever he can. A woman is different. She seeks sex, but only from the one whom she believes to be "the one". She becomes a whore if she charges guys for fulfilling their needs or just a plain slut if she gives it up whenever. Guys are expected to sleep around, but a woman is not.

Answer 2

Well, technically it's not okay for a man to sleep around. I call them "man-whores" and they are just as bad, if not worse than a woman who sleeps around.

Answer 3

That is a question with a long past. I recommend you be yourself and not let societies labels bring you down, but if you are seriously interested in exploring that topic, I recommend reading a book called "My Mother, My Self" by Nancy Friday. It's out of print, but available from places like amazon.

Answer 4

In my book, it's not OK for a man to sleep around. It's time we started calling them bad names, too. Sex is deeply meaningful. If used casually, that trashes it. It opens a person up to STD's, including AIDS, and pregnancy. It's not worth it. We should be using derogatory terms for anybody who does something that foolish.

Answer 5

because society has many strange ideas, many of which go back many years. The fix, don't put yourself in a position that leaves you open to being called a whore.

Answer 6

i totally agree...its stupid...guys are considered studs if they sleep around....but i think they are no less disgusting than a woman who sleeps around

Answer 7

Ya dont worry about it. And its ho. Hoe is a gardening tool.

Answer 8

That is a double standard.

Answer 9

It's not OK.......you want the chance of AIDS....go ahead....have fun.

Answer 10

Just don't worry about it. Just be yourself