Ok my boyfriend broke up wit me, i thought that I would be fine but now i realize that i want him back so how do i ask him back out witout sounding desprate
2006-07-06 12:41:56 · 13 answers · asked by Jasmine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he was the one to break up with you then he should be the one to ask you back. It's not that you look desperate in asking him back but it's gonna make him think he's got you wrapped around his finger. Whatever the reason was, only if you messed up then you should apologize and ask for another chance but don't beg. If he was the one that messed up then let it go. If he loves you he'll come around. You have to look at your situation and see what happened before you make any move towards it. Think of why he broke up with you to begin with then think about what you wanna do. Just take care of yourself no matter what. If it's not meant to be it's not, there are plenty of men out there who do want you and will appreciate you.
2006-07-06 12:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice i can give you is never go back unless the nreak up was on mutual terms and providing it was not the both of you saying that i think i fell out of love with you. Break ups are hard and we are suddenly back on the single factor again and we have to learn to adjust. And probably 90% of people go on what is called "rebound" now there is a chance that you are on rebound and are craving that affection you had before. Give yourself time to go out as a single person adn enjoy the single life hang out with friends and give yourself a chance to get over them. If in a couple of months you still have those strong feelings then organise to meet up with him and express how you feel. Just dont be suprised if he says he does not feel the same way. But then again you never will know if you dont try he could still like you.
2006-07-06 12:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by ness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You do things that will help you get over him and move on with your life. Sorry, but going out with someone after you break up with them is a bad idea. Whatever reason the two of you split up is likely to still be there.
Get him out of your life, completely. Go out and try to have fun.
2006-07-06 12:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 08:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take into considreation the reason he broke up with you...depending on what it is u may want to think about if it would be a good idea to try to get back with him...but then if it seems like a good idea....u should tell him honestly exactly how you feel about the situation, and about him....thats what i had to do with my boyfriend, and i have been back with him ever since
2006-07-06 12:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by fashiondivine01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just call him or something turn on the flirt and in a couple of days just hang w/ him and flirt with him and soon he'll ask you back out so you won't have to. This worked for me so trust me
2006-07-06 12:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by peace, love, happiness =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your story straight.
Did you break up with HIM or HE, with you.
If he broke up with you... its OVER.
If you Broke up with him... that's different. Go to him and tell him you made a mistake, and ask his forgiveness and ask if he'll take you back.
Who cares if you sound desperate? Do you want him back or NOT?
2006-07-06 12:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see if he was seeing anyone then I would ask him to lunch and make him ask you back out!
2006-07-06 12:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by amber m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If he wanted you he wouldn't have broken up with you. Don't go back to him if he doesn't like you, 'cause he probably won't treat you right.
2006-07-06 12:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't want to leave things like that that if he wants you can go have a cup of coffee and talk, thats what i'd do
2006-07-06 12:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by asker! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋