My partner wants to try new things with me in the bedroom that sound totally gross to me! i know i should have an open mind about this but it just doesn't seem natural to me. should i try it or not?
2006-07-06 12:20:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say no and stick to it
why should you do things that make YOU feel uncomfortable for HIS pleasure
get with it gal
2006-07-06 12:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by my_bleww_eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the sake of keeping an open mind, I would try it at least once,if you don't like it, you will be justified in your decision never to do it again, and if he is a gentleman, he should not complain or ask it of you again because you did try, trying new things in the bedroom is fine and good for a healthy sex life, and to keep that home fire burning, so to speak, but both partners should be in agreement, and with the understanding of pleasing their partner before themselves is a loving, unselfish attitude that should be practiced in all intimacy. LOTS OF LUCK!!
2006-07-06 12:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by trekkie1972566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always nice to have an open mind but not to open, you can and should try new things but there is a limit and when you feel that your limit is crossed then just let your partner know and if he respects you then everything well be okay
2006-07-06 12:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what he wants you to do. If its not extreme then you should. Try to make it fun and not think of it as being gross. If its something mellow like a golden shower, that's not bad. Just make sure he keeps his aim low. You may want to try some of his suggestions just once and if it totally makes you uncomfortable doing it, then tell him. He has to give you credit for atleast trying it once. Now if he's talking "chili dog" then NO WAYYYY!
2006-07-06 12:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have an idea of something you want to try in the bedroom as well ,and if lets you have your way ,you will let him have his. When he asks you what is it you want to do . Tell him that you read where men love having extremely large Popsicles stuck up their a-s-s hard and fast while they are getting a blow- job and that you are ready to do that for him cause you love him so much.
2006-07-06 12:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by windyy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically i have been with some men who bring it out ..........i will try any thing with them ,however they have to be someone you know is not going to blab at the mouth if you end things. never do something with someone that you are going to regret never do something you will look back on and be ashamed about. if this is a person you are serious about a life partner then yes honey go ahead and experiment. the things that seem gross to you will not be so bad if you are with someone who means something to you
2006-07-06 12:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by symplyhot_npink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your comfort level with your partner and with what he wants to try. By the sounds of it, you aren't that comfortable with it, so.....
2006-07-06 12:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it seems gross to you and he's into it maybe he's not the right guy for you!
2006-07-06 12:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by shdw71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO i think you should wait to do things because you never know what could happen he just could want a piece of *** and then dump you! so i think you should wait till you know its right!
2006-07-06 16:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your instinct. Don't depend on people to answer, you know yourself and your feelings. You should decide on your own. Good luck on that
2006-07-06 12:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by la_chica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋