I'm 16, short 5'0. I never thought of myself as ugly, pretty even. I'm asian and I'm usually complimented on my soft flowy hair and eyes. I admit I can be shy when it comes to guys. I do get the occasional stares and smiles of passing guys, but I wouldn't even imagine any of them ever apporaching me. Is there something wrong with me? I don't mean to sound insecure or anything, but I'm beginning to think that I'll never find someone for me.
2006-07-06 12:10:36 · 23 answers · asked by *YourStar* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most girls at my school, and my age have found someone and I've always wanted to find a nice guy for me. But no one seems to be right..they are all so immature.
2006-07-06 12:12:02 · update #1
yeah, you're right. I know I really shouldn't be thinking about the "one" right now. Thanks for the advice. :)
2006-07-06 12:17:15 · update #2
Guys your age aren't looking for someone as special as you. They're looking for a fling, and it sounds like you don't meet that requirement. Don't get too desperate and sell yourself short. Just wait it out and you'll find someone.
2006-07-06 12:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 0⤋
This is going to be hard but try not to think about the subject, let it come to you naturally (if that makes sense). Try not to think about that "one" guy or you might not find that guy, because the more you look and the harder you look you might miss that "one." So just have fun with your friends. And anyway you're only 16 try being 23 and having those thoughts. It hurts more when you are older. But I've learned not to think about the subject anymore. I go and have fun with friends. When I meet that person it will naturally happen.
2006-07-06 19:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by B.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah....16 is way to young for you to be stressing about guys yet.
Make sure that your ready for your college entrance exams first, get a good education, start a career, become succesful so that you can always support yourself. Then worry about some guy.
2006-07-06 19:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, it's all very confusing at that age and the boys are pretty immature. When you get older hopefully you meet someone who cares more about you than your looks. For now, take it easy and enjoy school and your friends
2006-07-06 19:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r only 16. Otherwise I'd go for u. Don't worry there's enough time. and don't be shy. There are many decent ways of showing interest in opposite sex .which people are bound 2 appreciate.
2006-07-06 19:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by binaryFusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee whiz girl, you are only 16 - I'm 37 and I have trouble getting a date. You have a long, long way to go yet.
Maybe guys your age are intimidated by your beauty - maybe they think that you have someone already.
2006-07-06 19:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u say ur kinda shy around guyz? maybe they think u should be more sociable. if its not tat, then dont wry the right smone will come along someday i kno a ton of ppl who only started going out until they were nneteen or even twenty. dont wry about it.
2006-07-06 19:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by akgirl1105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young don't think that at all. You will find a guy when you least expect it. Be ready and quit being shy. You only live once.
2006-07-06 19:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Blade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are pretty, then you have pretty woman syndrome, guys either think you already have someone else, or they fear rejection because they think they are not good looking enough, most pretty girls continue through life alone or with another woman because of man's own ignorance when it comes to a thing of beauty! love rocks!
2006-07-06 19:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try smiling more. Make longer eye contact. Flirt some. If that doesn't work, then all the guys at your school must be gay!
2006-07-06 19:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋