I have recently started dating again and told myself I would not get attached. This isn't working for me. He is everything I really want in a man but I am afraid he's been burnt to many times to want to take it to the next level. Any suggestions?
2006-07-06 12:08:17 · 9 answers · asked by Sassienuf4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, what I would do is wait untill a completely casual moment. Like when you're doing something that you always do with him. Or when you're having a casual conversation, a converstation that you would normally have around him. Then tell him you need to talk to him. He may get worried at first, like scared you're gonna leave him or something. Tell him everything that you feel tell him that you think you love him but you're scared. Ask him how he feels about you, tell him that you need to know how he's gonna react before you take it any further.
2006-07-06 12:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Janette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is never any "right time" to tell someone how yu feel, we are humans and emotions is something that we can't always control. i think you should express yourself because the opportunity may only present itself once and then there is no chnace and no turning back. You have to be willing to experience life to the fullest in order to be happy sometimes and to learn. A closed mouth doesn't get fed.
2006-07-06 19:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by laalaapeach 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im havin the same problem.....i started seein a guy, and fell for him fast...exactly what i told myself i wouldnt do.. and i just sent him an email a little while ago, and nervous as f***.
i just told him i didnt know if it was b/c i hadnt been dating and hadnt felt for someone like him in a long time or what but that i was falling for him, fast. so idk
good luck sweetheart
2006-07-06 19:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him...NOW. Get offline and tell him. The sooner the better. Avoid pain and suffering now. Talk to him and see where he may be regarding this. Hopefully, you 2 will be on the same page.
2006-07-06 19:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by tjb2676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna scare him away. Remember, he is a guy. They hate the attachment thing at first.
2006-07-06 19:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by strawbrrybabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush? Don't scare him off by confessing your undying love after only a few months!
2006-07-06 19:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Emily S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel about him in public
2006-07-06 19:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tai Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it, or else you'll never know.
2006-07-06 19:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's never ok, u'll make him get away.
2006-07-06 19:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by Leon the african 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋