If he sounds interesting enough and you'd like to get to know him or you would just like to go out and have some innocent fun then go for it! Meeting 1/2 way is only about a 20 minute drive and its a good idea to have your first meeting away from your hometown. Make sure its in a busy, casual place. Plus, if he turns out to be a weirdo you know he won't go to the extent of following you home for 20 minutes.
2006-07-06 12:18:02
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answered by JanLeo 3
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Might be a good thing. You probably don't know this guy really well, and meeting half way in a public place would make it a safe first date atleast. You never know about all the wackos out there, so I wouldn't want him to pick me up at my place for the first few dates. That way he doesn't know where you live. Then if the first few go O.K., then suggest for him to pick you up.
2006-07-06 19:10:18
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answered by Anonymous
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there is something wrong here..with this picture..? If he can't come to your place all the way..what is he hideing from or what is his plans when he meets with you half way when you don't have someone there..to make sure your safe..I would not go there..If your writeing to a guy from personals don't meet with him alone not even half way..thats a warning sign right therein it's self..if your going to met him if you do..you pick the place and make sure there are lot of people around just so nothing happens..but to me i would never write to anyone on a personal..I had one guy who wanted to meet with me and he claims he lived out in ONT canada and the whole time it was not me he wanted to meet with it was my daughter whole was at the time 13years old..I stop it right away and told him it was over and never to get in touch with me again..and after..thinking about it he was one of these guys who likes little kids if you know what i mean..so it is not safe..If you really want to meet guys find your local paper or go to a movice..or something where you can feel a safer
2006-07-06 19:15:51
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answered by Spice M 5
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NO!!! The only way to even give it a second thought would be to meet in a safe public place and don't be left alone on a road or in a car with him.
2006-07-06 19:10:41
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answered by silverboy470 4
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I had one like that. He wouldn't come over to my area (about 35 miles and I don't have a car) he wanted to eithter meet me half way (meaning I would have to take the bus and be coming back after dark alone because i don't let guys take me home at first) or wait a couple weeks till he had a dentist's appointment near my area. I told him to call me back later. He has contacted me but I just ignored him. If he is willing to come to you, then don't waste your time on him as this just indicates the rest of his behavior.
2006-07-06 19:18:17
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answered by reallyfedup 5
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I think it is a good idea to meet half way, however I would be making sure that you meet him in a public place with plenty of people around you both, eg a cafe or the local library. And if you decide to go, make sure you tell your mates or family where you are going, give details etc, in case he turns out to be a psychotic killer.....Trent
2006-07-06 19:09:08
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answered by City C 2
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If he wants a date I would meet him someplace very public! Don't let him come to your house and don't agree to pick him up. Make sure you have a way to leave by driving yourself to your meeting place. I would suggest a mall, restaurant, coffee house, something like that.
What ever you do BE SAFE!!!
2006-07-06 19:09:50
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answered by imspookysminx 2
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If you do meet up with him make sure it's a public place and that you have a friend near by. But I don't really understand the question "what's up with this guy?" I couldn't really tell you because I don't know him. He probably just wants to meet you or he might be a predator.
2006-07-06 19:09:27
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answered by B.J. 4
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It's not so uncommon that a first date is to meet at some location. If you've never really met the guy before, I would also think it is wise. Would you really want him to know where you live without first really knowing him?
2006-07-06 19:11:09
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answered by Dale P 6
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Don't be a b*tch - meet him
What if he is the one and you wouldn't go a few miles too
Whatever happened to equality? Guess you ladies don't like being on this side of the feminist argument eh?
2006-07-06 19:08:32
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answered by drsteve362005 6
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