I want to live my life & my life only. I don't want to marry any one & I don't want to have children. Is it a sign of abnormality? Even JESUS do that. Why not me?
2006-07-06 12:05:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Nothing at all wrong with that.
Before my bf met me he never wanted to get married or have kids, because he loved his freedom - he had a very restricted upbringing being Asian. He wanted to be able to see, do and experience a lot of things, that would be impossible, if tied down to a conventional domestic lifestyle.
While he still hasn't changed his mind about having kids, he wanted to marry me right from the start, because I too want the same lifestyle.
So even though you feel this way now, you might be at least open to marriage years later down the track, if you fall head over heels for the right woman. See if you find someone that wants the lifestyle you want to lead, you have a life partner to walk that path with you, without the fear of them holding you back from doing what you want in life.
So don't worry and just keep true to want you want in life..it will all fall into place. :)
2006-07-06 12:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by xanadu88 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't a sign of abnormality. Some people just dont feel like they want to get married or have kids, which is ok. It's ur decision, and it shouldn't be something that u feel is weird.
2006-07-08 13:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's good for you. It's great that you know what path you wish to follow in life and even better that it is that of a peaceful and faithful one. I do hope you don't get lonely. Surround yourself with friends and family if not lovers and children - even Jesus did that.
2006-07-06 19:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with not wanting to marry or have children.but can you honestly say to yourself you want to be alone for the rest of your life.What I suggest is to tell the people that are closest to you that for now you want to live your own life but maybe some day in the distance future you may get married or you may not
2006-07-08 08:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by starrygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you get yourself "fixed" in the meantime? I'm always afraid that people who don't want kids are going to be the very ones to have them. LOL it happens all of the time!
2006-07-06 20:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by fiteprogram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about what other people say, live your life as you se fit... And make sure others are aware of your decision..
2006-07-06 19:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.......... & enjoy yourself... it's not the law that you have to live with anyone or marry anyone...i've just split up from my husband....& i really wish i'd had your views before i married him!!! you only live once..make the most of it the way you can & do what ever you can/want to do ... ENJOY..we're not here for ever.....!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-06 19:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by friendly chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like to be on your own then that fine. some times i wish i was on my own but with 2 children and a husband i don't think that likely.
2006-07-07 08:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have been re-incarnated and been put on this earth for a reason.to do good,help people.whatever makes you happy,its your life and only you can live it.
2006-07-07 04:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we all have the freedom to not want to be wit someone. i think it's less stressful you pretty much have alot of time to your self,and hey you can always change you mind any time you feel like it
2006-07-08 20:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by sinajina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋