I am the type of guy that enjoys the simple things inlife. I enjoy going out to dinner and renting a movie and lying in the floor with a special someone. I also enjoy just jumping up at the last momment and say to her, "hey lets go to the beach". "lets go to the mountains" or someother nice place to share time with each other. i like taking her to the movies and at least once a week go out to the club and socialize and dance. I dont do drugs and I only social drink. I treat women with respect and dignity. I have several women that are just friends and they all say that they wish they could find a man like me. They know me very well so I trust their opinions. My friends say I am very hot looking even if I dont think I am all that. I am a somewhat rebel guy but not a full blown bad boy.I always wind up meeting women that cant commit or have way too many issues from how other guys treat them. if they know what is a bad guy then why cant they see me for who I am and give me a chance?
2006-07-06 12:02:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where do you live?? You sound like what most women are looking for. Is it possible that you aren't being quite aggressive enough when you meet a woman whom you would like to date? It seems that women have a window of opportunity in which they are attracted to a man before they move him into the forbidden "friend zone" and then there's no recovery. Maybe moving in a little sooner and asking someone out quicker would be an ideal move. Good luck!
2006-07-06 12:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by stseukn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's true - nice guys do finish last. Unfortunately, a lot of women tend to go through that bad boy phase (I personally never understood it). However, maybe you should start dating outside your circle? I mean, everyone, whether they admit it or not, has a type. Go to places you don't normally go to meet someone (although never ever go to a bar - you never can have a decent conversation, women are always with twenty million other friends who are more protective than the CIA, and who wants to meet someone when half the population is drunk?) and talk to girls you normally wouldn't talk to. Apparently, the best place is the supermarket. (Cliche, but I read it somewhere). And start slow. Do group dates and so forth. Also, don't be afraid to continue a relationship if you know it isn't going anywhere.
Oh, and if you do go somewhere that alcoholic drinks are served, don't pick up someone who orders a cosmopolitan. I heard they are emotionally unstable.
2006-07-06 13:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women see past the good guys and go str8 to the bad guys. Just don't bother with stressing yourself about women these days. One day you will find a woman who will love you for you and as much as you do for her she will be willing to do the same for you and be appreciative as well. My hubby is similar to you but if you saw us together you would never guess we were a couple. When i met him i was ruined by all the bad guys and didn't think he would be my type because i was till into the naughty type and not the cool down to earth hard working man such as himself. But when i got to know him and we started out as friends at first, i found out that he was one of a kind. I wouldn't trade him for nothing. Women with issues are srorned by these men who lead them on and make them think there will be something out of the relationship, and then leave them broken hearted. It takes time for a broken heart to heal but it can be done if you have the right person in your life. Just wait and trust me the right one will come alone for you and you will be more than happy that you waited! Good Luck!
2006-07-06 12:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Thang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women like a challenge..heck men do to. Or they think your to good to be true so therfor why even try. Trust me you will meet the right women because all these others you meet like you said have issues and they won't go away. Just hang in there and you will find her I promise.
From your post you sound just like my hubby and he never had lots of girlfriends either. I thought the same about him waiting for the other evil side to come rearing it's head, well 11 years later he still is this sweet, caring and spontanous guy.
BTW do you live near Vegas?? I need a guy like you for my best friend she keeps dating guys w/way to many issues and it's time for her to find a good man! LOL =)
2006-07-06 12:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by MaryJaneD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say that a girl would be lucky to have a great guy like you...Some girls who have been hurt alot take sometime to see that not all guys are like that. I was the same way, because every time I thought I found a nice guy, he ended up being an A$$. So be patient you'll get one that will see all the good things about you. :)
2006-07-06 12:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you'd better take a closer look at your female friends; the best relationships start as friendships. Give one of the women who wishes they could find a guy like you a chance to be with a guy like you.
2006-07-06 13:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how long ago and how badly the girls were hurt, should determine why. I personally was "hurt" really badly 3 years ago, and today it still hurts. I have put it to the side and have made a full committment with my boyfriend. We are planning on getting married! I have told him what happened and he accepts me still. If those girls had any common sense they would look at what they have in front of them, not dwell on the past! You seem like a really great guy! you will find a really great girl to share yourself with!
2006-07-06 12:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 08:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by porterii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"nice guys finish last"
Live by that quote. You arent going to find a nice girl in a club or party. Look at the library or a nearby college. I know those girls appear to be nerds or geeks but they will appriciate you for what you have to offer.
2006-07-06 12:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by m_thurson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a cool guy, I hope my gf doesn't read this or I may loose her (just kidding). It is true most girls find it difficult appreciating people like you (& me), cuz of their past and other issues, but when they get to know you, they'll love you. I guess the ladies have suggested the best, be confident and be yourself. your on your way to meeting the girl of your dreams.
2006-07-07 06:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by ciyire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋